• This workbook can stand alone or be a companion to the original Come As You Are.

• Offers simple, creative activities to help you explore your arousal and desire patterns.

• Much of the information in Come as You Are is included in this workbook, in a more simplified version.

We're huge fans of the original Come As You Are, undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure.  Emily Nagoski's groundbreaking book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. The Come as You Are Workbook covers many of the same topics in a condensed format, with a focus on activities and writing prompts to help you apply your new knowledge. Although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers.

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Author: Emily Nagoski

Publisher: Simon & Schuster (June 11, 2019)

Pages: 224

Author

Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

• Large, rigid paddle with medium weight padding.

• Satin smooth, dark red vegan leather.

• This large paddle distributes the impact more, creating a firm but diffused sensation.

• Coordinates with other items in the Sportsheets Saffron line of products.

This large paddle is wonderfully made to walk the line between a smack and a thud. The internal padding softens the blow while the smooth vegan leather exterior give a pleasant snap when the paddle makes contact with skin. This sturdy toy is beautifully finished and would look great in any toy box. Coordinate your BDSM toys with the full Sportsheets Saffron range of vegan impact toys and restraints.

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Length: 15.25 inches

Width: 6 inches across paddle at widest point

Material: 65% polyurethane, 14% polyurethane foam, 8% stainless steel, 8% fiberglass, 5% nylon

Manufacturer: Sex & Mischief

Country of Origin: made in China

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of vinyl. To clean, use a damp cloth and promptly wipe dry. 

Manufacturer

SPORTSHEETS

• 6 rumbly speeds
  
• Lowest speed is a gentle flutter but highest speed is incredibly intense
• Plus 6 additional pattern settings
• Magnetic recharging / Li-Ion battery
  
• Combination internal and external stimulation for increased sensation 
  
• Long shaft and the finger-like external stimulator controlled simultaneously
  
• Ergonomic handle for easy control
  
• Silky, Safe, Silicone

The girthier mid-shaft featured on the Mister Rabbit provides a distinct feeling of fullness yet the narrow tip makes initial penetration very comfortable. Many folks will appreciate the mild texture up and down the shaft as well. These ridges can be felt if the toy is gently rotated like wiper-blades going back and forth or if it is used for thrusting. We love the relatively long and super flexible finger-like external vibe too- Use it to achieve constant direct clitoral stimulation OR manipulate it with one hand for a flicking motion across the clitoral head and shaft for that pleasurable popping sensation so many people enjoy. These techniques will all be enhanced with the use of a water-based lubricant too! 

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Length: 8.5 in.

Insertable Length: 4.5 inches

Diameter At Widest Point: 1.65 inches

Material(s): Silicone

Settings: 6 speeds, 6 vibration patterns

Power Source: USB rechargeable 

Manufacturer: Satisfyer

Manufacturer Warranty: 10 years

Country of origin: Designed in Germany, made in China

Sweet and simple, the Gaia Eco Bullet offers just two settings - on and off! Its motor provides strong vibration, housed in a casing made of corn-based plastic that's satisfyingly smooth to the touch. This biodegradable material also produces fewer greenhouse emissions than traditional plastics during manufacture. (Unfortunately, the electronic components will not biodegrade, so do keep it out of the compost heap.) Pop in one AAA battery and you're all set for strong vibration with an absolute minimum of bells, whistles, and carbon emissions!

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Length: 3.3 inches

Diameter: 0.7 inch

Material(s): PLA plastic

Settings: 1 speed

Power Source: 1 AAA battery (not included)

Manufacturer: Blush Novelties

Manufacturer Warranty: 60 days

Country of Origin: Manufactured in China

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of PLA hard plastic and has electronic components.

Hard plastic is simple to care for and easy to clean. It’s a hypoallergenic, non-porous material that won’t break down or leach chemicals into the body over time. Hard plastic toys that vibrate can easily be cleaned with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use, just be careful to avoid getting water in the battery chamber or charging opening. Using a washcloth may be easier than running water directly from a faucet onto a toy. If you want to sterilize your hard plastic toy mix a solution of 1 part bleach 9 parts water and spray, wipe, or dip the toy into the solution and let stand for 5 minutes then rinse thoroughly.

Hard plastic is compatible with any kind of lubricant.

If you want to share your hard plastic toy, we recommend cleaning between bodies or orifices, or using condoms as needed.

If your toy is battery operated, rechargeable batteries are not recommended. Customer feedback suggests that they are more likely to corrode, leak, explode, and ruin perfectly happy sex toys. We recommend removing the batteries from a toy during cleaning and between uses.

• Silicone cock ring with waterproof, rechargeable ABS plastic bullet vibrator.

• Dual "bunny ears" designed to provide heightened external genital stimulation for the receiving partner.

• Removable, rechargeable bullet vibe can be used separately if desired.

• Dual rings for secure fit. One goes around the shaft only and the other can be harnessed around and behind the balls to prevent the toy from slipping or turning during use.

• Try adding the O'hare XL onto a dildo to enhance pleasure potential.

• Silky soft silicone is easy to clean and hypoallergenic.

The Charged O'Hare XL features a removable, rechargeable bullet vibe. The vibe itself is variable speed, stronger than average, and very quiet! When inserted in the silicone cock ring portion of this toy, the vibrations are transmitted efficiently for intense pleasure possibilities. This is one of the most popular vibrating cock rings for couples due to its ergonomic design, quality components, and good value. Please note that the XL indicates that both the rings are slightly larger than it's more modest sized buddy, The Charged O'Hare. 

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Length of Bullet: 2.5 inches

Measurements:

Small ring

inner unstretched diameter: 1.4 inches

maximum stretched width: 2.3 inches

Large ring

inner unstretched diameter: 1.9 inches

maximum stretched width: 3.1 inches

Settings: 

Materials: Silicone and ABS Plastic

Power Source: 

Manufacturer: Screaming O

Country of Origin: Made in China

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of silicone and has electronic components.

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

Manufacturer

SCREAMING O

Screaming O produces a range of products, but are most known for their cock rings. Their easy to use elastomer and silicone rings are affordable, effective, and are available in a variety of sizes, as well as vibrating and non-vibrating models. One of the larger manufacturers in the sex toy industry, Screaming O has received multiple AVN Award nominations for both its toys and its enhancement products.

The Satisfyer Men Vibration is a silicone chamber that surrounds the top few inches of a penis with strong, rumbly vibrations. The sides and top are stretchy and flexible to fit your girth, while the bottom houses the motors and features a gentle ridge to vibrate against the sensitive frenulum area (underside of the head of the penis). Two strong motors vibrate in tandem to create vibrations that resonate throughout the interior of the toy for varied and spine-tingling sensations. The Satisfyer Men Vibration can be used flaccid or erect, and in or out of the water for amazing hands-free orgasms anytime and anyplace!

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Care/Cleaning

This product is made of silicone and has electronic components.

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

This rechargeable vibrator features three silicone petals that each taper to a delicate, fluttering pointed tip. Its motor offers 6 vibration speeds and 6 vibration patterns for a range of tickling, teasing sensations. With its three tips offering an alternative to traditional external or insertable vibrator shapes, the Power Flower is perfect for anyone who wants to try something different!

Details

Length: 7.25 in.

Insertable Length: 4.5 in.

Diameter: 1.8 in.

Material(s): Silicone

Settings: 6 vibration speeds, 6 vibration settings

Power Source: USB rechargeable

Manufacturer: Satisfyer

Manufacturer Warranty: 10 years

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of silicone and has electronic components.

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

It's not every day that the world's most beloved vibrator gets an upgraded redesign! The Magic Wand Plus retains all the legendary features that have made the Magic Wand Original a favorite for generations of users: incredibly strong vibration, rock-solid construction, and unbeatable simplicity of design. On top of that, it adds a few expertly chosen improvements: four speed levels for a greater range of adjustable power, a sterilizable silicone head for easier cleaning, and a power cord that's detachable for easy storage and travel. (No need to worry about the cord slipping out and interrupting the magic, though - it features a built-in latching mechanism to keep it securely plugged in until playtime is over.)

Details

Length: 12.5 in.

Diameter: 2.4 in. (head), 2.0 in. (widest end of handle)

Material(s): Silicone, ABS Plastic

Settings: 4 speeds

Power Source: Plug-in (6 ft. cord)

Manufacturer: Vibratex

Manufacturer Warranty: 1 year

Country of Origin: Designed in Japan, Manufactured in China

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