This book is a must read for anyone who has ever wondered "why does my body behave this way?" or "why doesn't my arousal work the way I want it to?" We don't often declare favorites at Smitten Kitten, but Come As You Are is undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure. The tone of the book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. And although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers. With a firm grounding in scientific study and a friendly, truly down to earth voice, this book stands out in the genre of arousal and orgasm guides. 

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Author: Emily Nagoski

Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 3, 2015)

Pages: 416

Author

Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

From the publisher:

Everything you need to understand women's orgasms—what works, what doesn't and why:

• How to ask for what you need and want
• Multiple orgasms, extended orgasms and energetic orgasms
• The "elusive" orgasm and why some women have difficulty climaxing
• How often we fake them and why
• How personal history shapes sexual experience
• Orgasm as an emotional release
• Masturbation
• The power of fantasy
• Penetration, the G-spot and ejaculation
• Defining the erotic
• The joy of sex toys

There are tons of books filled with advice about orgasms, but many women find their relentless cheerleading lacks an honest discussion of their real needs. Mikaya Heart changes all that. The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women is a forthright and comprehensive exploration of female sexuality. Normalizing all women's experiences, Mikaya Heart provides the information, permission and support women need to enhance their own fulfillment.

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Publisher: Cleis Press (2011)

Author: Mikaya Heart

Pages: 267 pages

Publisher

CLEIS PRESS

Cleis Press, a mission-driven feminist book publisher, was founded in 1980 in Minneapolis, Minnesota by Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste. Winners of multiple Lambda Literary Awards, International Book Awards, Rainbow Book Awards, and Independent Publishers Book Awards, Cleis has a history of producing the best quality sexual education guides, sexual self help books, and diverse erotica collections. At the end of 2014 Cleis Press was purchased by Start Publishing, a New York-based company that primarily publishes and markets eBooks.

From the Publisher: 

Wanna go for a ride?

Girl Sex 101 is a sex-ed book like no other. It's a silly, smart, and informative guide book for ladies and lady-lovers of all genders and identities. Chock-full of illustrations, a sexy erotic narrative, and over 100 distinct voices, this book is as fun to read as the techniques are to practice!

Learn how to navigate the twists and turns of female sexuality guided by author Allison Moon and sixteen sex experts including Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Tristan Taormino, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Julia Serano and more. 

Girl Sex 101 Will Teach You... 

*The bits and pieces that make up female sexual anatomy 

*Simple ways to communicate in the heat of the moment

*How to build a "Road Map" of your partner's pleasure

*Essential moves for cunnilingus, strap-ons, hand sex and more!

*Positions to avoid fatigue and generate the power you need to rock your girl's world!

You'll gain confidence to please your girl, no matter what your hands-on experience. 

Buckle your seat belt and get ready to ride!

Details

Publisher: Lunatic Ink (2015)

Author: Allison Moon

Illustrator: KD Diamond

Girl Sex 101 Guest Experts: Megan Andelloux, Claudia Astorino, Ducky DooLittle, Nina Hartley, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Tina Horn, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Sarah Mueller, Carol Queen, Ignacio Rivera, Julia Serano, Sophia St. James, Sex Nerd Sandra, Kelly Shibari, and Tristan Taormino

Pages: 367