This book is a must read for anyone who has ever wondered "why does my body behave this way?" or "why doesn't my arousal work the way I want it to?" We don't often declare favorites at Smitten Kitten, but Come As You Are is undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure. The tone of the book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. And although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers. With a firm grounding in scientific study and a friendly, truly down to earth voice, this book stands out in the genre of arousal and orgasm guides. 

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Author: Emily Nagoski

Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 3, 2015)

Pages: 416

Author

Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

From the publisher:

Whether you’re celebrating your thousandth female orgasm, searching for your first, or cheering on your girlfriend or wife, women and men across the country agree: I Love Female Orgasm is crammed with everything you want to know about the big O, including:

• How to have an orgasm during intercourse—and why most women don’t
• Directions on finding your way to the G-spot
• Detailed advice on how to have your first orgasm
• Advice for better oral sex
• Tips on surfing waves of multiple orgasms (even if you usually have just one)
• The truth about female ejaculation (yes, it exists!)
• Answers to your questions about vibrators, sex toys, piercings, and more
• The real deal on orgasms for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women
• An entire chapter for men on how to turn her on and get her off, plus tips for partners in every chapter

Solot and Miller have spoken to thousands of men and women and surveyed thousands more about their experiences with female orgasm. Here they share all that they’ve learned—plus give you a sneak peek behind bedroom doors as women and men share their favorite moves, mistakes to avoid, and best “oh, yeah!” moments.

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Authors: Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller

Publisher: Da Capo Press (2007)

Pages: 296

From the Publisher: 

Wanna go for a ride?

Girl Sex 101 is a sex-ed book like no other. It's a silly, smart, and informative guide book for ladies and lady-lovers of all genders and identities. Chock-full of illustrations, a sexy erotic narrative, and over 100 distinct voices, this book is as fun to read as the techniques are to practice!

Learn how to navigate the twists and turns of female sexuality guided by author Allison Moon and sixteen sex experts including Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Tristan Taormino, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Julia Serano and more. 

Girl Sex 101 Will Teach You... 

*The bits and pieces that make up female sexual anatomy 

*Simple ways to communicate in the heat of the moment

*How to build a "Road Map" of your partner's pleasure

*Essential moves for cunnilingus, strap-ons, hand sex and more!

*Positions to avoid fatigue and generate the power you need to rock your girl's world!

You'll gain confidence to please your girl, no matter what your hands-on experience. 

Buckle your seat belt and get ready to ride!

Details

Publisher: Lunatic Ink (2015)

Author: Allison Moon

Illustrator: KD Diamond

Girl Sex 101 Guest Experts: Megan Andelloux, Claudia Astorino, Ducky DooLittle, Nina Hartley, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Tina Horn, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Sarah Mueller, Carol Queen, Ignacio Rivera, Julia Serano, Sophia St. James, Sex Nerd Sandra, Kelly Shibari, and Tristan Taormino

Pages: 367