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  • Aloe Cadabra

    Aloe Cadabra

    Seven Oaks Farm

    from $ 2.00 - $ 19.99
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    Aloe Cadabra

    Seven Oaks Farm

    Aloe Cadabra

    $ 2.00

    Aloe Cadabra is a smooth and silky organic surprise, made from 95% organic aloe vera. This all-natural, food grade gel soothes your most sensitive tissues with a lubricity that magically enhances all intimate encounters. This lube uses aloe for its slippery consistency and moisturizing effect, as well as for its anti-bacterial, anti-microbial, and anti-fungal properties. In addition to being an all-around excellent water-based lubricant, Aloe Cadabra is one of our most highly-recommended options for folks with extremely sensitive skin.

    Details

    Manufacturer: Seven Oaks Farms

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Ingredients: Organic aloe vera gel, vitamin E oil, xanthan gum, citric acid, potassium sorbate (food grade), sodium benzonate (food grade), organic vanilla essential oil

    Manufacturer

    SEVEN OAKS FARM

    Seven Oaks Farm is a small company based on an organic, solar-powered ranch in Ojai Valley, California. Their primary product, Aloe Cadabra, stemmed from the personal quest of one of Seven Oaks Ranch's founders to find an effective, safe, organic lubricant. When she found no options that were up to her standards she created Aloe Cadabra, a NSF certified organic, 95% aloe vera gel, water based lubricant that is truly one of the greenest lubricants you can buy, both in manufacturing procedure and in ingredients.

  • Dirty Darling Harness Dirty Darling Harness Quick View
    Dirty Darling Harness

    Project TransAction

    Dirty Darling Harness

    $ 129.99

    These handmade leather harnesses are a swoon-worthy fusion of style and craft. The swirling vines and other illustration details are screen printed by hand, and give each of these pieces its own unique character. The generously curving back piece is both soft and sturdy, providing extra stability where you need it. The slender leg straps are finely stitched with finished ends, and include plenty of holes to help you adjust to your ideal fit. Whether you identify as an art nouveau cowboy, a mermaid queen or just a sexy aesthete with a penchant for pegging, you've got a good chance of finding true love with one of these beautiful harnesses.

    Details

    Materials: nickel-plated steel, brass, top grain American Cowhide, water based dye

    Manufacturer: Project TransAction

    Country of Origin: US - Made in Boston, Massachusetts

    Manufacturer Warranty: If your harness breaks during typical wear, you can send it back for repair or replacement at Project TransAction's discretion. 

    Care/Cleaning

    Leather products are porous, meaning they cannot be completely sterilized and they will absorb water, so when cleaning it is best to use as little water as possible. Only use soaps specifically made for cleaning leather, like saddle soap or specialty leather wipes. Follow cleaning instructions of whichever leather cleaner you choose, then using a dry towel pat dry until all excess moisture has been absorbed.

    Standard hand soaps or dish soaps can damage dyed leather and/or dry out leather leading to cracks or fraying. Oils in lubricants or soaps can stain leathers and should be avoided.

    Over time leather conditioners may be necessary to keep leathers from cracking or wearing out, especially around buckles or other metal hardware.

    Manufacturer

    Project TransAction

    Sizing

    Size Small accommodates hip measurements 27-44"

    Size Large accommodates hip measurements 33-53"

    Front snaps accommodate rings from 1-1/2"- 2-1/4"

    All orders include 1-1/2" and 1-3/4" O-rings.

  • Electra Electra Quick View
    Electra

    Pleasure Works

    Electra

    $ 24.99

    The colorful, matte-finish shine of the Electra's hard plastic exterior may be beautifully showy, but that's not all it has going for it. Powered by two AAA batteries, this toy's feisty motor packs a considerable amount of power into its compact frame. Simply press the button on its base to cycle through three speeds of steady vibration, ranging from gentle to strong, and two deliciously varied patterns of vibration. The Electra's completely smooth and very slim profile also make it an excellent vaginal dilator or therapeutic aid for anyone working to build comfort with penetration.

    Details

    Length: 6.25 in.

    Insertable Length: 5.25 in.

    Diameter: 0.80 in.

    Material(s): ABS Plastic

    Settings: 3 speeds, 2 pulse patterns

    Power Source: 2 AAA batteries (not included)

    Manufacturer: Pleasure Works

    Country of Origin: Made in China

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of ABS plastic and has electronic components.

    ABS Plastic is simple to care for and easy to clean. It’s a hypoallergenic, non-porous material that won’t break down or leach chemicals into the body over time. ABS Plastic toys that vibrate can easily be cleaned with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use, just be careful to avoid getting water in the battery chamber or charging opening. Using a washcloth may be easier than running water directly from a faucet onto a toy. If you want to sterilize your ABS hard plastic toy mix a solution of 1 part bleach 9 parts water and spray, wipe, or dip the toy into the solution and let stand for 5 minutes then rinse thoroughly.

    ABS Plastic is compatible with any kind of lubricant.

    If you want to share your hard plastic toy, we recommend cleaning between bodies or orifices, or using condoms as needed.

    If your toy is battery operated, rechargeable batteries are not recommended. Customer feedback suggests that they are more likely to corrode, leak, explode, and ruin perfectly happy sex toys. We recommend removing the batteries from a toy during cleaning and between uses.

    Manufacturer

    PLEASURE WORKS

    Pleasure Works, nominated as the 2013 New Pleasure Company of the Year by Xbiz, is dedicated to making smart, simple, well packaged and affordable sex toys. Operated by the folks over at Good Vibrations, this start-up operation has benefited greatly from the expertise gained through decades of conversations with real customers about real sex toys. These toys are practical and purposeful. We haven’t found any gimmicks or silly designs in their entire catalog- only solid and useful stuff.

  • Fluke Fluke Quick View
    Fluke

    Hole Punch

    Fluke

    $ 65.99

    Fluke is a unique insertable that defies conventional classification rules.  Is it a butt plug?  Is it a dildo?  Is it a vaginal plug perhaps?  You decide!  Therein lies the beauty of this versatile design.  Hand made by the silicone sculptors at Hole Punch, this toy features gorgeous gradient color, a bold head and sturdy base for easy handheld use or strap-on play. The relatively short stature might make this an ideal toy for vaginal penetration underneath a harness to pleasure the wearer. This toy is hand made in small batches by a local Minnesota company, so colors and texture may vary slightly and there may be slight surface texture imperfections. These are not defects, and will not impact the safety or function of the toy.

    Details

    Length: 5.75 in.

    Insertable Length: 5.25 in.

    Diameter: 2.00 in.

    Material: silicone

    Manufacturer: Hole Punch

    Country of Origin: Made in USA

    Care/Cleaning
    This product is made of solid silicone. Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below. To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did. Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.
    Manufacturer

    HOLE PUNCH

    Hole Punch is a silicone sex toy design studio known for innovative yet practical designs and gorgeous colors. Handcrafted in St. Paul, Minnesota, Hole Punch toys are hand-poured in small batches and feature eye-catching shapes and functional details. They're made for creative, inspired sex of all kinds. This little company is a gem of the Northern Midwest!
  • G-Spot Classic G-Spot Classic

    G-Spot Classic

    BS Atelier

    from $ 69.99 - $ 89.99
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    G-Spot Classic

    BS Atelier

    G-Spot Classic

    $ 69.99

    With a subtly tapered shaft, a classic beveled head for G-Spot stimulation three sizes and tons of gorgeous colors to choose from, this dildo might just have it all. Choosing between between these wild stripes and the bright new G-Spot Ella color scheme might be a challenge, but rest assured that every BS silicone toy has the same beautiful curves and swells and the same potential for powerful internal stimulation. Since each BS toy is hand-poured, not all colors and designs are identical. Keep in mind when receiving your BS Atelier toy that there may be slight variations in color between pieces (or in comparison to the product photos), but never in the quality of the product.

     Details

    Small

    Length: 5.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 5.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.16 in. at tip, 1.56 in. just above base

     

    Medium

    Length: 6.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 6.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.50 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Large

    Length: 7.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 7.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.60 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Material: Silicone

    Manufacturer: BS Atelier

    Country of Origin: Made in Spain

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of solid silicone.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    BS ATELIER

    BS Atelier is a small artisan company that produces handcrafted silicone toys out of their studio near Madrid, Spain. Since each BS Atelier silicone toy is hand-poured, each piece is unique. All of their colorful dildos and butt plugs are simple, elegant, feature smooth lines and ergonomic shapes. Minimalist and environmentally-friendly packaging punctuate their commitment to quality.  Every BS Atelier product comes with a 2 year guarantee against manufacturing defects, and they include safer sex information and recommendations with all of their toys.

  • G-Spot Ella G-Spot Ella

    G-Spot Ella

    BS Atelier

    from $ 79.99 - $ 99.99
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    G-Spot Ella

    BS Atelier

    G-Spot Ella

    $ 79.99

    Check out the newest design from BS Atelier, a small European toy studio known for their handcrafted products and cool, colorfully striped designs. With a subtly tapered shaft, a classic beveled head for G-Spot stimulation, and three sizes to choose form, the G-Spot Ella is the perfect addition to your colorful toy collection. For a wilder look, try the G-Spot Classic with its bold, high contrast stripes!

    Since each BS Atelier toy is hand-poured, not all colors and designs are identical. Keep in mind when receiving your BS Atelier toy that there may be slight variations in color between pieces (or in comparison to the product photos), but never in the quality of the product.

     Details

    Small

    Length: 5.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 5.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.16 in. at tip, 1.56 in. just above base

     

    Medium

    Length: 6.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 6.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.50 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Large

    Length: 7.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 7.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.60 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Material: Silicone

    Manufacturer: BS Atelier

    Country of Origin: Made in Spain

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of solid silicone.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    BS ATELIER

    BS Atelier is a small artisan company that produces handcrafted silicone toys out of their studio near Madrid, Spain. Since each BS Atelier silicone toy is hand-poured, each piece is unique. All of their colorful dildos and butt plugs are simple, elegant, feature smooth lines and ergonomic shapes. Minimalist and environmentally-friendly packaging punctuate their commitment to quality.  Every BS Atelier product comes with a 2 year guarantee against manufacturing defects, and they include safer sex information and recommendations with all of their toys.

  • Lube Sampler Lube Sampler

    Lube Sampler

    Smitten Kitten

    from $ 9.99 - $ 18.99
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    Lube Sampler

    Smitten Kitten

    Lube Sampler

    $ 9.99

    If you're looking for lubricants, but don't know where to turn, these sampler packets are a great place to start! Each comes with 4-6 different trial size packets of lubricants that can be sampled at your leisure. Plus, we'll include a copy of our informative pamphlet LUBE! An In-Depth Look at Personal Lubricants. 

    Details

    Choose from these three options:

    Water-Based - these lubricants have a variety of consistencies, from thick to thin, and include organic options. Water-based lubricants are compatible with all sex toy materials, although they will soak into the skin and evaporate over time. 

    Includes:

    • Sliquid Satin (5ml)
    • Sutil (10ml)
    • Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant Pure (10ml)
    • Sinclair Institute Organic Lubricant & Moisturizer (3ml)
    • Sliquid Sea (5ml)

     

    Silicone-Based - these long lasting lubricants are water-resistant and make excellent massage glides. Silicone-based lubricants are not always compatible with solid silicone sex toys. 

    Includes:

    • Überlube (2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (1.5ml)
    • Sliquid Silver (5ml)
    • Swiss Navy (20ml)

     

    Varietythis selection provides water and silicone based lubricant options, as well as a hybrid of silicone and water based mixed together, and a plant-oil based lube. Perfect if you love lube, sexy experimenting, or just aren't sure what lube is best for you!

    Includes:

    • Sinclair Institute Organic Lubricant & Moisturizer (water & aloe based, 3ml)
    • Sliquid Sassy (water-based, 5ml)
    • Sliquid Silk (hybrid, 5ml)
    • Überlube (silicone-based, 2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (1.5ml)
    • Southern Butter Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter (oil based, fragrance free, 1oz)

     

    Sensitive Skin - this sampler includes water-based, silicone, and oil based lubricants specially selected for folks with sensitive skin. Plus, you'll get some 1 oz. bottles in this pack, which are great for travel or giving a lubricant multiple test runs!

    Includes:

    • WaterSlide (water-based, 1 oz.)
    • Southern Butter Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter (oil based, fragrance free, 1oz)
    • Sutil (water-based, 10ml)
    • Überlube (silicone-based, 2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (silicone-based, 1.5ml)
  • ON Natural Arousal Balm ON Natural Arousal Balm Quick View
    ON Natural Arousal Balm

    Sensuva

    ON Natural Arousal Balm

    $ 22.99

    ON Arousal Balm is a very concentrated product utilizing cinnamon and rosemary oil blended with beeswax in an easy-to-use applicator. Start out with a tiny little bit as you learn how your body responds to the oils. Apply a small amount (just one swipe to start!) to your body, and gently massage onto your clitoris. Within a minute or two, you should begin to feel a warming, buzzing sensation. If you want more intensity, rub a little bit more on gradually until you have reached the desired sensation. ON is not compatible with latex condoms, as the oils in the balm can break down the latex material and cause the condom to break. Avoid contact with the vaginal opening, urethra or anus.

    Details

    Manufacturer: Sensuva

    Country of Original: USA

    Ingredients: Beeswax, Proprietary Essential Oil Blend including: Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond Oil), Cinnamomum Zeylanicum (Cinnamon Oil), Natural Tocopherois (Vitamin E), Rosmarinus Officinalis (Rosemary Oil Extract)

    Manufacturer

    Sensuva

    Winner of the 2014 AVN award for best Enhancement Company, Sensuva focuses on creating balms, oils, gels and lubricants to enhance any body's sexual sensations. All of their formulas are created and manufactured in the U.S. using primarily natural or organic ingredients. From their first product, On Arousal Oil, Sensuva proved that they were serious about bringing new, body-friendly products to the table that deliver intense sensations. Since then their product line has only continued to expand, including products for more bodies, preferences, and more applications.

  • Pronoun Buttons 3 Pack Pronoun Buttons 3 Pack Quick View
    Pronoun Buttons 3 Pack

    The Smitten Kitten

    Pronoun Buttons 3 Pack

    $ 3.00

    Here at Smitten Kitten, we sincerely believe that graphic design and cuteness can be powerful tools for social justice! So we humbly submit these pronoun-themed button packs as an eye-pleasing strategy for creating more gender euphoria in the world. 

    Pick a pack (or packs!) that you like best, wear them yourself, or give them to a friend or loved one. These buttons would also make a great gift to celebrate and support someone's gender transition.

    Each Pronoun Button 3 Pack comes with the three buttons pictured together, along with a small cotton storage bag.

    Details

    We make these buttons ourselves at our Minneapolis store! If you would like a set of custom buttons with pronouns other than the ones pictured here, we want to make that happen. 

    To order a custom Pronoun Button 3 Pack, please contact The Smitten Kitten via email (info@smittenkittenonline.com) or our web contact form, and we'll reply within 2-3 business days to get your order set up.

  • Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Quick View
    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    $ 16.99

    This book is a must read for anyone who has ever wondered "why does my body behave this way?" or "why doesn't my arousal work the way I want it to?" We don't often declare favorites at Smitten Kitten, but Come As You Are is undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure. The tone of the book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. And although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers. With a firm grounding in scientific study and a friendly, truly down to earth voice, this book stands out in the genre of arousal and orgasm guides. 

    Details

    Author: Emily Nagoski

    Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 3, 2015)

    Pages: 416

    Author

    Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

  • Ruffian Harness Ruffian Harness Quick View
    Ruffian Harness

    Project TransAction

    Ruffian Harness

    $ 149.99

    This sturdy harness is perfect for a ruffian with a tough exterior and a tender heart. The high quality leather is strong enough to withstand plenty of action while still providing stability and comfort, and the slender, finely stitched straps make a provocative contrast with that no-nonsense handle in the back. This harness would be perfect for folks who enjoy some affectionate pushing and pulling, or who like being topped from the bottom. 

    Details

    Materials: nickel-plated steel, brass, top grain American Cowhide

    Manufacturer: Project TransAction

    Country of Origin: US - Made in Boston, Massachusetts

    Manufacturer Warranty: If your harness breaks during typical wear, you can send it back for repair or replacement at Project TransAction's discretion. 

    Care/Cleaning

    Leather products are porous, meaning they cannot be completely sterilized and they will absorb water, so when cleaning it is best to use as little water as possible. Only use soaps specifically made for cleaning leather, like saddle soap or specialty leather wipes. Follow cleaning instructions of whichever leather cleaner you choose, then using a dry towel pat dry until all excess moisture has been absorbed.

    Standard hand soaps or dish soaps can damage dyed leather and/or dry out leather leading to cracks or fraying. Oils in lubricants or soaps can stain leathers and should be avoided.

    Over time leather conditioners may be necessary to keep leathers from cracking or wearing out, especially around buckles or other metal hardware.

    Manufacturer

    Project TransAction

    Sizing

    Size Small accommodates hip measurements 27-44"

    Size Large accommodates hip measurements 33-53"

    Front snaps accommodate rings from 1-1/2"- 2-1/4"

    All orders include 1-1/2" and 1-3/4" O-rings.

     

  • Cashmere & Leather Flogger Cashmere & Leather Flogger Quick View
    Cashmere & Leather Flogger

    Swoonkink

    Cashmere & Leather Flogger

    $ 65.99

    This flogger is a gorgeous mash up of visuals and sensations! Victorian elegance meets a riot of rainbow colors, while the cashmere and leather tails offer a mix of sweet softness and serious bite. Hand made here in Minneapolis, the Swoonkink flogger features a mixture of new, upcycled and vintage materials. Every flogger is a little different because of material sourcing, and the individual care and artistry that goes into each piece.

    Details

    Length: 16 inch long tails, 10 inch long birch handle.

    Material(s): Upcycled cashmere, leather, birch wood.

    Manufacturer: Swoonkink

    Country of Origin: Made in Minnesota, USA

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made from upcycled cashmere, leather and solid wood.  Washing is not recommended. If the product is soiled, spot clean the tails, or wipe the handle with a damp cloth.

    Manufacturer

    SWOONKINK

    Swoonkink products are handmade by the lovely Susanna, a local sewing powerhouse who supplies the Smitten Kitten with our prettiest luxury kink products. She combines both upcycled and select new materials and handcrafts each product herself. We love her entrepreneurship and attention to detail, and are proud to support this local Minneapolis business.
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    S Curve S Curve Quick View
    S Curve

    Standard Glass

    S Curve

    $ 119.99

    This product is sold out

    Easily one of the most beautiful sex toys in our shop, the Standard Glass S Curve dildo is a cascade of sensory delights. Each hand crafted toy is slightly different in size and shape, but they all have the same long, seductive curve and double head. The G-Spot stimulation potential with this toy is amazing, and its smooth, shining surface glides beautifully across skin for supremely comfortable insertion.

    Each toy from Standard Glass is handmade and unique, and the exact shape, size and color pattern of the S Curve toy in your order cannot be guaranteed. If you love predictability, select from the blue, pink and purple options below. Or roll the dice and select "surprise" from the menu, and we'll randomly select a toy for you from the many different hues and patterns currently available at our store in Minneapolis. 

    If you're curious about the range of possible lengths and diameters for this item, don't forget to check the Details tab for more information. 

    Details

    Length: Most pieces are 7-9 inches in length, but this measurement may vary.

    Diameter: Each toy is different, but the diameter at various points of the toy will be roughly 1-1.5 inches.

    Material(s): soda lime glass

    Manufacturer: Standard Glass

    Manufacturer Warranty: Standard Glass guarantees all their pieces against manufacturer defects.

    Country of Origin: Seattle, Washington, USA

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of soda lime glass.

    Soda lime glass is non-porous, non-toxic and hypoallergenic. Most commercial glassware, like pint glasses and jelly jars, is made from soda lime glass. Unlike the borosilicate glass used to make scientific labware and some other sex toys, soda lime glass cannot be subjected to extreme heat/cold cycles. Do not boil or autoclave soda lime glass - it is strong and durable, but could break if frozen or put in boiling water.

    To clean, wash with water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    This material is compatible with all lubricants.

    Manufacturer

    STANDARD GLASS

    Standard Glass is a small, independent company based in Seattle, Washington. As if the beauty of their toys weren't enough reason to love them, Standard's attention to detail, quality and toy safety are top notch. It's difficult to find glass toys that are genuinely high quality, and even harder to find glass toy makers that are this transparent (yes, pun intended) about their manufacturing process and safety standards. 

  • Simon Peg Simon Peg Quick View
    Simon Peg

    Hole Punch

    Simon Peg

    $ 49.99

    As clever as its namesake, the Simon Peg dildo is perfectly designed for pegging. (Pegging is a term used to describe strap-on sex wherein one partner uses a harness and dildo to penetrate another partner anally.) This slim, firm dildo is particularly suited to anal penetration because it maintains a uniform diameter from tip to base, is rigid enough to easily control in a harness, and has enough length to leave ample room for strap-on play. Two subtle ridges—one near the top and one mid-shaft—add just a touch of titillating texture to Simon's otherwise ultra-smooth surface. This toy's design has recently been revamped, and it is now manufactured with a smooth, seamless surface. This toy is a one-of-a-kind, handcrafted piece of pleasure producing art. Any variations in surface texture, color or shape are a sign of its unique craftsmanship, and will not interfere with its function.

    Details

    Length: 7.0 in.

    Insertable Length: 6.5 in.

    Diameter: 1.12 in.

    Material: silicone

    Manufacturer: Hole Punch

    Country of Origin: St. Paul, Minnesota, USA

    Care/Cleaning
    This product is made of solid silicone. Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below. To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did. Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    HOLE PUNCH

    Hole Punch is a silicone sex toy design studio known for innovative yet practical designs and gorgeous colors. Handcrafted in St. Paul, Minnesota, Hole Punch toys are hand-poured in small batches and feature eye-catching shapes and functional details. They're made for creative, inspired sex of all kinds. This little company is a gem of the Northern Midwest!
  • Soul Source Silicone Dilators Soul Source Silicone Dilators Quick View
    Soul Source Silicone Dilators

    Soul Source

    Soul Source Silicone Dilators

    $ 18.00

    Simple, aesthetically pleasing and carefully designed for therapeutic use, these silicone dilators are an invaluable tool for people who are dealing with pelvic pain issues. Physical therapists and gynecologists often recommend dilators for patients experiencing pelvic floor muscle dysfunction, vestibulodynia, and other conditions that are sometimes called "vaginismus." Dilators can also help regain vaginal flexibility, resilience and openness after radiation therapy, surgery, or hormonal changes.

    Using dilators can help a person practice the experience of comfortable, controlled vaginal penetration, and encourage their vaginal muscles to relax and elongate in healthy ways.

    Soul Source dilators were created by a sex therapist and a gynecologist, and are designed for easy use and simple care and cleaning.

    Details

    Material(s): Silicone

    Manufacturer: Soul Source

    Country of Origin: Made in US

    INDIVIDUAL DILATORS

    Size #1 (violet) 2-1/2" length x 1/2" diameter

    Size #2 (blue) 3" length x 3/4" diameter

    Size #3 (pink) 3-1/2" length x 7/8" diameter

    Size #4 (green) 4" length x 1" diameter

    Size #5 (yellow) 4-1/2" length x 1-1/8" diameter

    Size #6 (orange) 5" length x 1-1/4" diameter

    Size #7 (violet) 5-1/2" length x 1-7/16" diameter

    Size #8 (blue) 6" length x 1-5/8" diameter

    DILATOR SETS

    Small Set - Includes sizes 1, 2, 3 and 4, with storage pouch

    Medium Set - Includes sizes 3, 4, 5 and 6, with storage pouch

    Large Set - Includes sizes 5, 6, 7 and 8, with storage pouch

    Progressive Set - Includes sizes 1, 3, 5 and 7, with storage pouch

    Full Set - Includes all eight sizes 1-8, with storage pouch

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of solid silicone.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    SOUL SOURCE

    Soul Source is run by people who genuinely care about pelvic health, and are dedicated to making a practical, easy to use set of products for people who need them. They're also a trans-inclusive company, which is something that really helps them stand out within the vaginal health industry. Soul Source's products are designed by a gynecologist and a sex therapist.
  • The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex Quick View
    The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex

    Violet Blue

    The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex

    $ 14.95

    From Cleis Press:

    Feeling adventurous? Sex educator and best-selling writer Violet Blue guides readers through the pleasure playground of strap-on sex for heterosexual couples. The wild success of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men makes it clear that anal sex is hitting the mainstream. Lots of hot women want to strap it on, and their male partners are often happy to oblige. With style and wit, Violet Blue explains pleasure anatomy in men, with ample attention to the prostate gland—the epicenter to male orgasm that's been called 'the male G-spot.' Full of crafty ideas on positions, toys, harnesses, role-play scenarios, and reading your partner like a dirty book, The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex offers a step-by-step guide to making sparks fly. And look, ma! No hands.

    Details

    Author: Violet Blue

    Publisher: Cleis Press (2007)

    Pages: 160

    Author

    VIOLET BLUE

    Violet Blue is a sex educating maverick—journalist, blogger, vlogger, author, podcaster, erotica reviewer, and lecturer, she does it all! Her blog, TinyNibbles, has been active for over thirteen years, she wrote a sex column for the San Francisco Chronicle for four years, and she has authored over forty books. As a member of The Internet Press Guild and The Center for Investigative Reporting, Violet’s work not only contains candid sex ed, but expert analysis of hot button issues like intellectual property in the age of the internet, journalistic ethics, and sex and gender representation in mainstream medias.

    Publisher

    CLEIS PRESS

    Cleis Press, a mission-driven feminist book publisher, was founded in 1980 in Minneapolis, Minnesota by Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste. Winners of multiple Lambda Literary Awards, International Book Awards, Rainbow Book Awards, and Independent Publishers Book Awards, Cleis has a history of producing the best quality sexual education guides, sexual self help books, and diverse erotica collections. At the end of 2014 Cleis Press was purchased by Start Publishing, a New York-based company that primarily publishes and markets eBooks.

  • The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn Quick View
    The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn

    Violet Blue

    The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn

    $ 14.95

    From the publisher:

    The secret is out: Women watch porn. A recent study by Glamour magazine found that 87 percent of women ages 25 to 39 enjoy porn as part of their self-defined healthy sexual lifestyles—even more than use sex toys. In The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn, acclaimed sex educator Violet Blue tells women how to find porn they'll like, from favorite turn-ons and women-friendly DVDs to podcasts and porn groups on the Web. She shows how to reconcile fantasy with real-life desires, and how smart girls can maintain their own beauty standards when the people on screen seem impossibly buff, smooth, and surgically enhanced. Looking for authentic sex scenes? Thinking of sharing porn with a lover? Wonder which browser is safest for Internet porn surfing? The Smart Girl's Guide to Porn has the answers.

    Details

    Publisher: Cleis Press (2006)

    Author: Violet Blue

    Pages: 164 pages

    Author

    VIOLET BLUE

    Violet Blue is a sex educating maverick—journalist, blogger, vlogger, author, podcaster, erotica reviewer, and lecturer, she does it all! Her blog, TinyNibbles, has been active for over thirteen years, she wrote a sex column for the San Francisco Chronicle for four years, and has authored over forty books. As a member of The Internet Press Guild and The Center for Investigative Reporting, Violet’s work not only contains candid sex ed, but expert analysis of hot button issues like intellectual property in the age of the internet, journalistic ethics, and sex and gender representation in mainstream medias.

    Publisher

    CLEIS PRESS

    Cleis Press, a mission-driven feminist book publisher, was founded in 1980 in Minneapolis, Minnesota by Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste. Winners of multiple Lambda Literary Awards, International Book Awards, Rainbow Book Awards, and Independent Publishers Book Awards, Cleis has a history of producing the best quality sexual education guides, sexual self help books, and diverse erotica collections. At the end of 2014 Cleis Press was purchased by Start Publishing, a New York-based company that primarily publishes and markets eBooks.

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    The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women

    Tristan Taormino

    The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women

    $ 16.95

    From the publisher:

    The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women offers comprehensive information on all aspects of anal eroticism and health:

    • For all women—heterosexual, lesbian, or bisexual—who want to learn how to enjoy anal sex with a partner or by yourself
    • Building trust and communicating your desires
    • Pleasurable anal penetration: how to give it, how to get it
    • Clear, illustrated discussion of anatomy
    • Male anal eroticism: how to please your man
    • Expanded chapters on power play, butt bondage, and fisting
    • Ask the Anal Advisor: answers to questions on all aspects of anal pleasure
    • Helpful tips on safety, preparation, and hygiene
    • Where to buy toys, accessories, and safer sex supplies
    Details

    Publisher: Cleis Press 2nd Edition (2006)

    Author: Tristan Taormino

    Pages: 180 pages

    Author

    TRISTAN TAORMINO

    Tristan Taormino is a feminist porn icon, writer, director, advocate and sex educator. Her books give candid information on everything from anatomy to sex toys, her pornography is refreshingly honest and authentic, and her commitment to sex positive, pleasure-based sex ed is palpable in everything she does. Tristan's goal with her amazing VividEd series of instruction DVDs is to "prioritize female pleasure and orgasm and strive to diversify how sexuality is portrayed." In this she has definitely succeeded.

    Publisher

    CLEIS PRESS

    Cleis Press, a mission-driven feminist book publisher, was founded in 1980 in Minneapolis, Minnesota by Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste. Winners of multiple Lambda Literary Awards, International Book Awards, Rainbow Book Awards, and Independent Publishers Book Awards, Cleis has a history of producing the best quality sexual education guides, sexual self help books, and diverse erotica collections. At the end of 2014 Cleis Press was purchased by Start Publishing, a New York-based company that primarily publishes and markets eBooks.

  • The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women: How to Become Orgasmic for a Lifetime Quick View
    The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women: How to Become Orgasmic for a Lifetime

    Mikaya Heart

    The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women: How to Become Orgasmic for a Lifetime

    $ 17.95

    From the publisher:

    Everything you need to understand women's orgasms—what works, what doesn't and why:

    • How to ask for what you need and want
    • Multiple orgasms, extended orgasms and energetic orgasms
    • The "elusive" orgasm and why some women have difficulty climaxing
    • How often we fake them and why
    • How personal history shapes sexual experience
    • Orgasm as an emotional release
    • Masturbation
    • The power of fantasy
    • Penetration, the G-spot and ejaculation
    • Defining the erotic
    • The joy of sex toys

    There are tons of books filled with advice about orgasms, but many women find their relentless cheerleading lacks an honest discussion of their real needs. Mikaya Heart changes all that. The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women is a forthright and comprehensive exploration of female sexuality. Normalizing all women's experiences, Mikaya Heart provides the information, permission and support women need to enhance their own fulfillment.

    Details

    Publisher: Cleis Press (2011)

    Author: Mikaya Heart

    Pages: 267 pages

    Publisher

    CLEIS PRESS

    Cleis Press, a mission-driven feminist book publisher, was founded in 1980 in Minneapolis, Minnesota by Felice Newman and Frédérique Delacoste. Winners of multiple Lambda Literary Awards, International Book Awards, Rainbow Book Awards, and Independent Publishers Book Awards, Cleis has a history of producing the best quality sexual education guides, sexual self help books, and diverse erotica collections. At the end of 2014 Cleis Press was purchased by Start Publishing, a New York-based company that primarily publishes and markets eBooks.

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    Ultimate Thigh Harness

    Kookie Int'l

    Ultimate Thigh Harness

    $ 84.99

    This adjustable thigh harness has a nylon strap and a soft, cushioned leather panel. It can be worn around the thigh for partner play that leaves the wearer’s genitals fully accessible. It can also be wrapped around a pillow or the seat of a chair for solo play. Like all thigh harnesses, this product is great for those who want to penetrate a partner with a toy and leave their own genitals uncovered for easier access. 

    Details

    Measurements: Strap adjusts to fit circumferences between 17 and 35 inches. O-ring has 1.75 inch diameter.

    Material(s): Leather, nylon web strap, plastic buckle

    Manufacturer: Kookie Int'l

    Country of Origin: USA

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of leather.

    Leather products are porous, meaning they cannot be completely sterilized and they will absorb water, so when cleaning it is best to use as little water as possible. Only use soaps specifically made for cleaning leather, like saddle soap or specialty leather wipes. Follow cleaning instructions of whichever leather cleaner you choose, then using a dry towel pat dry until all excess moisture has been absorbed.

    Standard hand soaps or dish soaps can damage dyed leather and/or dry out leather leading to cracks or fraying. Oils in lubricants or soaps can stain leathers and should be avoided.

    Over time leather conditioners may be necessary to keep leathers from cracking or wearing out, especially around buckles or other metal hardware.

    Manufacturer

    KOOKIE INT'L

    This San Francisco leather wholesaler has been in business for decades. Their factory and outlet store is located on Folsom Street. They offer quality leather gear, designed and manufactured in the US.

  • G-Spot Sport G-Spot Sport

    G-Spot Sport

    BS Atelier

    from $ 69.99 - $ 89.99
    Quick View
    G-Spot Sport

    BS Atelier

    G-Spot Sport

    $ 69.99

    Golly, what a winner! This sporty dildo will inspire all sorts of athletics in your bedroom. Choosing between between these bold stripes and the bright G-Spot Ella color scheme might be a challenge, but rest assured that every BS G-Spot dildo has the same beautiful curves and swells and the same potential for powerful internal stimulation. Since each BS toy is hand-poured, not all colors and designs are identical. Keep in mind when receiving your BS Atelier toy that there may be slight variations in color between pieces (or in comparison to the product photos), but never in the quality of the product.

     Details

    Small

    Length: 5.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 5.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.16 in. at tip, 1.56 in. just above base

     

    Medium

    Length: 6.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 6.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.50 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Large

    Length: 7.5 in.

    Insertable Length: 7.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.60 in. at tip, 1.92 in. just above base

     

    Material: Silicone

    Manufacturer: BS Atelier

    Country of Origin: Made in Spain

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of solid silicone.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    BS ATELIER

    BS Atelier is a small artisan company that produces handcrafted silicone toys out of their studio near Madrid, Spain. Since each BS Atelier silicone toy is hand-poured, each piece is unique. All of their colorful dildos and butt plugs are simple, elegant, feature smooth lines and ergonomic shapes. Minimalist and environmentally-friendly packaging punctuate their commitment to quality.  Every BS Atelier product comes with a 2 year guarantee against manufacturing defects, and they include safer sex information and recommendations with all of their toys.

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