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  • A Quick & Easy Guide To Queer & Trans Identities A Quick & Easy Guide To Queer & Trans Identities Quick View
    A Quick & Easy Guide To Queer & Trans Identities

    Mady G. and J.R. Zuckerberg

    A Quick & Easy Guide To Queer & Trans Identities

    $ 9.99

    • Youth friendly comic about the wide variety of queer and trans identities.

    • Explores gender identity, gender expression, and sexuality through colorful comics and simple, accessible language.  

    From the publisher:

    In this quick and easy guide to queer and trans identities, cartoonists Mady G and J.R. Zuckerberg guide you through the basics of the LGBTQ+ world! Covering essential topics like sexuality, gender identity, coming out, and navigating relationships, this guide explains the spectrum of human experience through informative comics, interviews, worksheets, and imaginative examples. A great starting point for anyone curious about queer and trans life, and helpful for those already on their own journeys!

    Details

    Authors: Mady G, J.R. Zuckerberg

    Publisher: Limerence Press (2019)

    Pages: 56

    Authors

    Mady G. is a cartoonist and illustrator based in New York State. No stranger to wildlife and natural wonders, they spent most of their childhood exploring in the northeastern U.S. and in southwestern Canada, surrounded by all kinds of flora and fauna. They are passionate about LGBTQ+ and human rights, especially the rights of transgender and gender non-conforming people, and hope to contribute to a more loving and less judgmental world.

    J.R. Zuckerberg is a cartoonist, illustrator, and craftsperson living in Brooklyn, NY. They grew up in the middle of the woods of New York state and have always drawn inspiration from their observations of flora and fauna. They've created playful illustrations for children's magazines, journal comics galore, and a number of self-published mini comics. J.R. is so excited to debut the microcosm of the sproutlings in a Quick & Easy Guide to Queer and Trans Identities!

  • A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns Quick View
    A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns

    Archie Bongiovanni & Tristan Jimerson

    A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns

    $ 7.99

    From the publisher:

    Archie, a snarky genderqueer artist, is tired of people not understanding gender neutral pronouns. Tristan, a cisgender dude, is looking for an easy way to introduce gender neutral pronouns to his increasingly diverse workplace.

    The longtime best friends team up in this short and fun comic guide that explains what pronouns are, why they matter, and how to use them. They also include what to do if you make a mistake, and some tips-and-tricks for those who identify outside of the binary to keep themselves safe in this binary-focused world.

  • Ageless Erotica Quick View
    Ageless Erotica

    Joan Price

    Ageless Erotica

    $ 18.99

    From The Publisher:

    What would it look like if talented writers over age fifty wrote erotica featuring steamy, sexy characters who were also over fifty? Now we know. Ageless Erotica is a ground-breaking anthology of erotic short stories and memoir essays presenting women and men, couples and singles, straight and gay, who are over fifty, sixty, seventy, and beyond – all enjoying and sharing their erotic moments. This is not your usual erotica with a few wrinkles slapped on -- these are stories that show how hot sex can be at our age. This collection embraces the agelessness of sexuality while still realistically acknowledging the changes that accompany aging. Ageless Erotica is a stimulating celebration of the many pleasures of "well-seasoned" sex. In this anthology, age is accepted, celebrated, and sensually enjoyed. Some selections are tender and loving, while others are edgy and kinky. Characters may be having spicy sex with partners they have loved for decades; or with new loves, old loves reunited, or forbidden partners; or solo with fantasies. Ageless Erotica has it all, portraying older-age sexuality as healthy, lusty, and glorious.

    Details

    Editor: Joan Price

    Publisher: Seal Press (2013)

    Pages: 336

    Editor

    From Seal Press:

    Author and speaker Joan Price calls herself an "advocate for ageless sexuality." She has been called other things by the media: "senior sexpert," "the beautiful face of senior sex," and—her favorite—"wrinkly sex kitten." How did Joan start writing and speaking about senior sex? For fifteen years, Joan was a widely published health and fitness writer. Then at 57, after decades of single life, she fell deeply in love with artist Robert Rice, who was then 64. Their love affair was profound, joyful, and extremely spicy. Their passion, in contrast to society's view of older people as sexless, led Joan at age 61 to write Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (Seal Press, 2006) to celebrate the delights of older-life sexuality.

     

  • Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide For Men, Women and Couples Quick View
    Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide For Men, Women and Couples

    Jack Morin, PhD

    Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide For Men, Women and Couples

    $ 18.00

    From the publisher:

    For many years the focus of fear and disgust, the anus is actually one of the human body's most wondrous creations—elegant, efficient, and richly supplied with pleasure nerves. However, stress and ignorance can turn the anus and its functions from a source of delight into a painful disability. What's needed is an owner's manual—and here it is! Join therapist and sexologist Jack Morin, Ph.D., on this tour of the anus, complete with information and exercises to open the door to new sources of comfort and gratification. You'll unlearn habits that can cause everything from hemorrhoids to chronic pelvic pain—and, if you choose, learn new ways of achieving solo and partnered pleasures through this humblest of portals.

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    Author: Jack Morin, Ph.D.

    Publisher: Down There Press (2010)

    Pages: 256

  • Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide To Maximizing Anal Pleasure For Every Body Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide To Maximizing Anal Pleasure For Every Body Quick View
    Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide To Maximizing Anal Pleasure For Every Body

    Carlyle Jansen

    Anal Sex Basics: The Beginner's Guide To Maximizing Anal Pleasure For Every Body

    $ 26.99

    From the publisher:

    Sex educator Carlyle Jansen has all of the tips and techniques to ease you into butt play and anal pleasure. Anal play is so much more than just intercourse. Learn all of the sexiest secrets of fingering, licking, and using toys. Even try some erotic fantasy and role play. Discover the pleasure of G-spot or P-spot stimulation and even more styles of sexy anal play.

    So try something new with your lover. Anal Sex Basics covers everything a beginner to butt play will need, from choosing your lube to learning the best positions. But more than just technique, this guide also helps you to bring up anal sex with your partner and make your adventures as fun and safe as possible.

    "Carlyle Jansen is simply one of the best sex educators in North America. Honest, funny, and engaging, she wins over clients and audiences with her inclusive style and thorough subject knowledge. Each time I hear her speak, I learn something new and leave feeling empowered and inspired." –Jessica O'Reilly, Ph.D. noted sexologist and author of The New Sex Bible

    About the Author
    Carlyle Jansen is the founder of Good for Her, Toronto's premier sexuality shop and workshop center; author of Sex Yourself; and producer of the annual Feminist Porn Awards. Carlyle has been teaching workshops and coaching individuals and couples looking to enhance their sexual lives since 1995. She is passionate about education for everyone, and her teaching audience ranges from sexual health professionals and sex therapists to youth and parents, TV audiences, and informal groups of folks looking for fun ways to improve their sexual experiences. She is a regular contributor to Tonic magazine; has been featured in the Toronto Star, Maclean's magazine, Globe and Mail, and Montreal Gazette; and has appeared on the Discovery Channel, Women's Television Network, CBC, and many television stations and documentaries. She lives in Toronto, Canada.

     

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    Better Sex Through Mindfulness Better Sex Through Mindfulness Quick View
    Better Sex Through Mindfulness

    Ingram

    Better Sex Through Mindfulness

    $ 16.95

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    From the publisher:

    “A masterpiece and masterclass in female sexuality.”—Ian Kerner, New York Times–bestselling author of She Comes First

    Studies show that approximately half of all women experience some kind of sexual difficulty at one point in their lives, with lack of interest in sex being by far the most common—and the most distressing. And when sex suffers, so do all other areas of life.

    But it doesn’t have to be that way. In Better Sex through Mindfulness, acclaimed psychologist and sex researcher Lori A. Brotto, PhD offers a groundbreaking approach to improving desire, arousal, and satisfaction inside—and outside of—the bedroom. A pioneer in the use of mindfulness for treating sexual difficulties, Brotto has helped hundreds of women cultivate more exciting, fulfilling sexual experiences. In this accessible, relatable book, she explores the various reasons for sexual problems, such as stress and incessant multitasking, and tells the stories of many of the women she has treated over the years. She also provides easy, effective exercises that readers can do on their own to increase desire and sexual enjoyment, whether their goal is to overcome a sexual difficulty or simply give their love life a boost.

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    Author: Lori A. Brotto, PhD

    Publisher: Greywolf Press (2018)

    240 pages

    Author

    LORI A. BROTTO, PhD, is a clinical psychologist, sex researcher, and Canada Research Chair in Women's Sexual Health. She is a member of various sexuality organizations and an associate editor for Archives of Sexual Behavior. Brotto writes a monthly column called Health Advisor for the Globe and Mail and has been featured in the New York Times, the Walrus, Chatelaine, Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, and many other outlets. She lives in Vancouver, BC.

  • Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty Quick View
    Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty

    Joan Price

    Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk About Sex After Sixty

    $ 17.00

    From the publisher:

    Better Than I Ever Expected is a warm, witty, and honest book that contends with the challenges and celebrates the delights of older-life sexuality. It asserts that women over sixty are at the top of their game when it comes to enjoying sex.

    Joan Price’s woman-to-woman straight talk transcends the self-help style of other books in this field. Yes, there are challenges to sex after menopause and beyond, says Price, but there are also creative solutions. She is on a mission to let women her age and older know that they can, in fact, have the best sex of their lives. Price gets personal and stays positive, combining her own story with candid comments, tips, and sassy tales from sexually seasoned women. She acknowledges the gritty issues that older women confront in their sexual lives, noting that it’s not easy, but it certainly isn’t over.

    At age 61, Price is newly engaged to the man she’s been looking for her whole life. Her discovery of how great “well-seasoned” sex can be was the inspiration for this book. Sidebars present candid and friendly sex tips; fitness, exercise, and lifestyle information; and women’s erotic vignettes—both real-life experiences and fantasies.

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    Author: Joan Price

    Publisher: Seal Press (2005)

    Pages: 280

    Author

    From Seal Press:

    Author and speaker Joan Price calls herself an "advocate for ageless sexuality." She has been called other things by the media: "senior sexpert," "the beautiful face of senior sex," and—her favorite—"wrinkly sex kitten." How did Joan start writing and speaking about senior sex? For fifteen years, Joan was a widely published health and fitness writer. Then at 57, after decades of single life, she fell deeply in love with artist Robert Rice, who was then 64. Their love affair was profound, joyful, and extremely spicy. Their passion, in contrast to society's view of older people as sexless, led Joan at age 61 to write Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty (Seal Press, 2006) to celebrate the delights of older-life sexuality.

     

  • Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them) Quick View
    Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)

    Hanne Blank

    Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)

    $ 15.99

    Big Big Love (Revised) is a sex and relationship guide for people interested in fat bodies. Whether you're fat, attracted to fat folks, or both, this book provides practical information and insights that you'll be able to really use. It's witty, intelligently written and unflinching in its critical examination of fatphobic culture. This revised edition features new illustrations, commentary from sexual health professionals, activists and experts, and lots of quotes and anecdotes from participants in a survey conducted especially for this book. It's an entertaining and empowering read that is not to be missed.

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    Author: Hanne Blank

    Publisher: Celestial Arts (Revised Edition 2011)

    Pages: 240

     

  • Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Quick View
    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    $ 17.99

    This book is a must read for anyone who has ever wondered "why does my body behave this way?" or "why doesn't my arousal work the way I want it to?" We don't often declare favorites at Smitten Kitten, but Come As You Are is undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure. The tone of the book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. And although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers. With a firm grounding in scientific study and a friendly, truly down to earth voice, this book stands out in the genre of arousal and orgasm guides. 

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    Author: Emily Nagoski

    Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 3, 2015)

    Pages: 416

    Author

    Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

  • Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships Quick View
    Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

    Mark A. Michaels & Patricia Johnson

    Designer Relationships: A Guide to Happy Polyamory, and Optimistic Open Relationships

    $ 15.95

    From the publisher:

    Contemporary relationships are in a state of rapid evolution. These changes can and should empower people with the opportunity to develop partnerships based on their own sexualities, understandings, and agreements. This makes it possible to create what Kenneth Haslam, founder of the Kinsey Institute’s Polyamory Archive, has called “designer relationships.”

    Designer relationships may encompass: people who bond emotionally but not sexually; people who agree to be non-exclusive; single people who have occasional lovers or friends with benefits; multiple partner configurations where long-term bonds exist among all or some; partnerships in which people are kinky and that make room to explore kink.

    The possibilities are limitless, and thinking about a partnership as something people can craft allows for flexibility and change. Relationships can open and close or have varying degrees and kinds of openness as circumstances demand. In the context of a designer relationship, decisions are made mutually, consciously, and deliberately. Best-selling authors and nationally known relationship experts Patricia Johnson and Mark A. Michaels are exemplars of this life choice, and have studied polyamory for over 20 years. This book explains exactly how you and your loved ones can design your own life and love.

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    Author: Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson

    Publisher: Cleis Press (September 15, 2015)

    Pages: 208 pages

  • Drawn to Sex: The Basics Quick View
    Drawn to Sex: The Basics

    Erika Moen

    Drawn to Sex: The Basics

    $ 19.99

    Our take:

    • We love this fun introduction to sex, featuring all kinds of bodies in all kinds of situations! 

    • This is a great reference people of many experiences levels, but we especially recommend The Basics to adults who are just starting to explore their sexuality, whether that's alone or with others.

    • 160 pages, softcover

     

    From the publisher:

    Erika and Matthew are ready to talk about sex!

    Have you ever had a question about sex, but didn't know who to ask? Well, Erika and Matthew have spent years learning, talking, and creating informative comics about all aspects of sex. Using comics, jokes, and frank communication, they're here to demystify the world of sex and answer your questions—including ones you might not even know you had!

    In this first book of the Drawn to Sex series, they explore the practical side of sex, from the basics of what defines sex, to barriers and testing, masturbation, and the ins-and-outs of having sex with other people.

    Pick up this fun book if you’re looking to learn something new, understand sexuality better, or know someone (maybe you!) who might benefit from some judgment-free education. Erika and Matthew are here to help you out.

    Reviews:

    "This is a sex-positive gulp of fresh air."

    – Publishers Weekly

    "A sense of joy and wonder pervades the whole book, and Moen and Nolan want a sense of joy and wonder to pervade your sex life too."

    – Manhattan Book Review

    "I dare you to read this without immediately running out your door to try everything with the babely humans in your life."

    – Autostraddle

    Author

    Erika Moen is a veteran of nearly 20 years in the comics industry. She is best known for her autobiographical story DAR! A Super Girly Top Secret Comic Diary and the sex toy review/sex education series Oh Joy Sex Toy. Her work focuses on sex, sexuality, identity, and fart jokes. She lives in Portland, Oregon with her husband and creative partner Matthew Nolan.

    Matthew Nolan is wise beyond his years. He's been helping make sex education comics for the past five years and still looks great doing it. He lives in Portland with his wife Erika Moen, and cat Flapjack, who doesn't contribute to the comics at all, despite living off of the proceeds. Lazy, if you ask me. Matt's almost entirely grey, despite only being in his 30s!

  • Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot Quick View
    Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot

    Deborah Sundahl

    Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot

    $ 17.95

    From the Publisher:

    The first edition of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot was meant to raise awareness about the phenomenon of female ejaculation, and to resurrect a now lost wonder and mystery surrounding this aspect of female sexuality. It empowered women who already ejaculated, taught women who wanted to ejaculate how to do so, and introduced this new possibility of sexual pleasure to women who did not know that they could ejaculate. The second edition of the book promises to do the same, and more. In the past ten years, attitudes regarding female ejaculation have changed. It is no longer a shocking phenomenon that few people have heard about, let alone experienced. Today, it is much more common for couples to know about female ejaculation, and to even integrate it into their sex lives. There has also been more research on female ejaculation and the G-Spot and advancements in the field of Sexological Bodywork. Many workshops now provide education and assistance to couples who want to improve and deepen their overall sexual experience.

    Sundhal takes advantage of this developing climate of knowledge regarding female pleasure to expand her already comprehensive book. The second edition of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot includes even more testimonials from workshop participants, an interview with a sexual healer, and an expanded list of outside references, resources, product makers and tantra teachers. She summarizes and explains new information that has come to light regarding the G-Spot, paying special attention to the renamed and researched PC muscles (now expanded to the Pelvic Floor muscles), and new Find, See and Feel techniques for ejaculating with a partner. She has also added new information to her section on men’s role in female ejaculation, updating findings on men’s sexual tastes, citing how many men now want more emotional expression and connection in relationships. 

    With its new features meant to enhance Sundhal’s original empowering and healing message regarding female sexuality, the second edition of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot promises to help readers, once again, appreciate the wonders and healing potential of female ejaculation.

    Details

    Author: Deborah Sundahl

    Publisher: Hunter House Second Edition (2014)

    Pages: 264

  • Fucking Trans Women Fucking Trans Women Quick View
    Fucking Trans Women

    Mira Bellwether

    Fucking Trans Women

    $ 11.99

    This zine-style publication is an amazing resource for trans women and their sex partners, and anyone who wants to learn more about trans women's sexuality. Part practical sex guide, part advice manual, part personal narrative, this book is insightful and witty and has a visual style that recalls all your favorite black and white collaged zines from the 90's. Trans inclusive sex guides are hard to find, and trans focused guides even more so. Sometimes when there's a shortage of a particular type of resource, it's easy to settle for a mediocre choice. That's definitely not the case here. Bellwether has written a wonderfully detailed, intelligent sex guide that is strengthened by the presence of her own voice and experiences throughout.

    Details

    Author: Mira Bellwether

    Publisher: Amazon Createspace

    Pages: 75

  • Girl Sex 101 Girl Sex 101 Quick View
    Girl Sex 101

    Allison Moon

    Girl Sex 101

    $ 29.99

    From the Publisher: 

    Wanna go for a ride?

    Girl Sex 101 is a sex-ed book like no other. It's a silly, smart, and informative guide book for ladies and lady-lovers of all genders and identities. Chock-full of illustrations, a sexy erotic narrative, and over 100 distinct voices, this book is as fun to read as the techniques are to practice!

    Learn how to navigate the twists and turns of female sexuality guided by author Allison Moon and sixteen sex experts including Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Tristan Taormino, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Julia Serano and more. 

    Girl Sex 101 Will Teach You... 

    *The bits and pieces that make up female sexual anatomy 

    *Simple ways to communicate in the heat of the moment

    *How to build a "Road Map" of your partner's pleasure

    *Essential moves for cunnilingus, strap-ons, hand sex and more!

    *Positions to avoid fatigue and generate the power you need to rock your girl's world!

    You'll gain confidence to please your girl, no matter what your hands-on experience. 

    Buckle your seat belt and get ready to ride!

    Details

    Publisher: Lunatic Ink (2015)

    Author: Allison Moon

    Illustrator: KD Diamond

    Girl Sex 101 Guest Experts: Megan Andelloux, Claudia Astorino, Ducky DooLittle, Nina Hartley, Tobi Hill-Meyer, Tina Horn, Jiz Lee, Reid Mihalko, Sarah Mueller, Carol Queen, Ignacio Rivera, Julia Serano, Sophia St. James, Sex Nerd Sandra, Kelly Shibari, and Tristan Taormino

    Pages: 367

  • Healing Painful Sex Quick View
    Healing Painful Sex

    Deborah Coady & Nancy Fish

    Healing Painful Sex

    $ 18.00

    This comprehensive and up-to-date guide is an excellent self care resource for people experiencing pelvic pain, and a thorough medical reference for lay people and professionals. Although the intended audience is cisgender, heterosexual women, people of all genders will find this book extremely useful for understanding pelvic health. In fact, the book's deeply compassionate and thorough approach to chronic pelvic pain makes it arguably the best book available on the subject. Our staff highly recommends this book for anyone who is struggling with a pelvic pain condition, or who needs help communicating with their health care provider about sexual pain.

    Details

    Authors: Deborah Coady MD, MSW, Nancy Fish MPH

    Publisher: Seal Press (November 1st, 2011)

    Pages: 400

     

  • How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime Quick View
    How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime

    Morpheous

    How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime

    $ 25.00

    From the publisher:

    Are you looking to explore the kinkier side of your sex life on the weekends, or are you looking to move into a full time 24/7 D/s relationship with your mistress? Do you have a chest full of high-end sex toys or simply a kitchen drawer full of pervertables? Do you spend your days dreaming of wilder sex but don’t know how to start?

    Whether you’re just dipping your toes into kink or consider yourself more sadistic than de Sade himself, Morpheous shows you how to be bad, and how to do it right. From making balloon anal beads and using wrist shackles all the way to vacuum beds and play piercing, How to Be Kinkier is your essential guide to finding out just how kinky you really are!

    Details

    Author: Morpheous

    Publisher: Green Candy Press (2012)

    Pages: 382

     

     

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    How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM Quick View
    How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM

    Morpheous

    How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM

    $ 25.00

    This product is sold out

    From the Publisher:

    For singles and couples looking to take a walk on the wild side but questioning where to begin, How to be Kinky offers the perfect starting place. Instead of emphasizing techniques and clinical issues, it takes a more practical approach, with advice on finding a scene, negotiating kinky play with a partner, maintaining boundaries, kinky uses for common household objects, and the proper protocol at fetish events, as well as the basics of BDSM play and role-playing.

    If you're going to be bad, be good at it!

    Details

    Author: Morpheous

    Publisher: Green Candy Press Second Edition (2012)

    Pages: 388

  • I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide Quick View
    I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

    Miller & Solot

    I Love Female Orgasm: An Extraordinary Orgasm Guide

    $ 16.99

    From the publisher:

    Whether you’re celebrating your thousandth female orgasm, searching for your first, or cheering on your girlfriend or wife, women and men across the country agree: I Love Female Orgasm is crammed with everything you want to know about the big O, including:

    • How to have an orgasm during intercourse—and why most women don’t
    • Directions on finding your way to the G-spot
    • Detailed advice on how to have your first orgasm
    • Advice for better oral sex
    • Tips on surfing waves of multiple orgasms (even if you usually have just one)
    • The truth about female ejaculation (yes, it exists!)
    • Answers to your questions about vibrators, sex toys, piercings, and more
    • The real deal on orgasms for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women
    • An entire chapter for men on how to turn her on and get her off, plus tips for partners in every chapter

    Solot and Miller have spoken to thousands of men and women and surveyed thousands more about their experiences with female orgasm. Here they share all that they’ve learned—plus give you a sneak peek behind bedroom doors as women and men share their favorite moves, mistakes to avoid, and best “oh, yeah!” moments.

    Details

    Authors: Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller

    Publisher: Da Capo Press (2007)

    Pages: 296

  • Man Cancer Sex Quick View
    Man Cancer Sex

    Anne Katz

    Man Cancer Sex

    $ 19.95

    From the Oncology Nursing Society:

    From the author of Woman Cancer Sex and Breaking the Silence on Cancer and Sexuality. . .This book by Anne Katz explores how men are affected by a diagnosis of cancer and how they can seek help. Written for men and the women and men who love them and live with them through the cancer experience, Man Cancer Sex explores issues ranging from loss of libido to communication with a partner and problems and concerns in between.

    Details

    Author: Anne Katz

    Publisher: Hygeia Media (2009)

    Pages: 176

  • Naked At Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex Quick View
    Naked At Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex

    Joan Price

    Naked At Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex

    $ 16.95

    From acclaimed author and frequent Smitten Kitten guest educator Joan Price comes Naked At Our Age, a straight-shooting book that covers a broad range of topics pertaining to sex, relationships, and aging. A follow up to Better Than I Ever Expected, Price's first foray into the subject of senior sex, Naked At Our Age pairs readers' questions with advice from over forty expert sex educators as well as Price's own warm, honest, and knowledgeable commentary. Covering topics ranging from health issues like vulvar/vaginal pain, erectile dysfunction, cancer, and Alzheimer's to relationship concerns like keeping desire alive, grieving the loss of a partner, and senior dating, Naked At Our Age provides a wealth of practical advice and fearlessly models an attitude of grace and adaptability in the face of the body and relationship changes that often accompany aging.

    Details
    Author: Joan Price
    Publisher: Seal Press (2011)
    Pages: 400
  • Open: Love, Sex & Life in an Open Marriage Quick View
    Open: Love, Sex & Life in an Open Marriage

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    Open: Love, Sex & Life in an Open Marriage

    $ 18.00

    Finally, a book about open marriage that grapples with the problems surrounding monogamy and fidelity in an honest, heartfelt, and non-fringe manner. "Open" challenges our notions of what traditional marriage looks like, and presents one woman's journey down an uncertain path that ultimately proves open marriage is a viable option--even one that suits some couples better than conventional marriage.

  • Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships Quick View
    Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

    Tristan Taormino

    Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

    $ 17.95

    • An in depth guide to all kinds of non-monogamous relationship styles.

    • Accessibly written and broken into three wide ranging sections: choosing an open relationship, styles of open relationships, and creating and sustaining your relationships.

    • Great for anyone who is interested in learning more about how people practice non-monogamy, whether you are currently solo, in an open relationship, or in a monogamous relationship. 

    From the Publisher:

    Relationship expert and bestselling author Tristan Taormino offers a bold new strategy for creating loving, lasting relationships. Drawing on in-depth interviews with over a hundred people,Opening Up explores the real-life benefits and challenges of all styles of open relationships—from partnered nonmonogamy to solo polyamory. With her refreshingly down-to-earth style and sharp wit, Taormino offers solutions for making an open relationship work, including tips on dealing with jealousy, negotiating boundaries, finding community, parenting, and time management. Opening Up will change the way you think about intimacy.

    Details

    Author: Tristan Taormino

    Publisher: Cleis Press (2008)

    Pages: 246

     

     

  • Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities Quick View
    Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

    Lee Harrington & Mollena Williams

    Playing Well With Others: Your Field Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities

    $ 19.95

    From the publisher:

    While plenty of other books explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book devoted to kink culture—the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of “sexual sherpas” with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the “community” aspect of the kink lifestyle.

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    Authors: Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams

    Publisher: Greenery Press (2012)

    Pages: 312

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    Sex After Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved

    Joan Price

    Sex After Grief: Navigating Your Sexuality After Losing Your Beloved

    $ 16.95

    From the publisher:

    Sex is complicated at the best of times—but when we're overcome by grief, it's especially complicated and confusing. How do we nurture ourselves as sexual beings when we're grieving the death of a partner? How do we know when it's time to open ourselves to a new sexual connection? Sex After Grief is the first book to address sex and grief together and treat sex as a normal, life-affirming part of emerging from such a difficult time.

    Joan Price, the preeminent expert on senior sex, draws on her own experiences as a widow since 2008, when she lost the love of her life to cancer. She shares her raw grief journey and sexual reawakening (and the many stumbles along the way), along with excellent advice on handling each step. Sex After Grief includes a variety of helpful personal stories from folks of all genders and orientations. With heart, humor, and hard-won wisdom, Joan Price helps you reclaim your sexual pleasure after great loss.

    "Price offers valuable advice and guidance in an accessible writing style that brims with passion and compassion."—Dr. Justin Lehmiller, author of Tell Me What You Want

    "This book lights a path that sets us on the journey to recovery, with content that is relevant, necessary, and inspiring for grievers and the professionals that serve them."—Patti Britton, PhD, co-founder of SexCoachU

    "A source of comfort for those who are grieving, and advice and support for those who are ready to open back up to sex, pleasure, and love."—Carol Queen, PhD, Good Vibrations sexologist

    "I always love Joan's books because they are real, honest, inspirational, and audacious. Sex After Grief will advise and surprise you, whatever your age, gender, or orientation."—Betty Dodson, PhD, author, artist, sexologist, and orgasm educator since the early 1970s

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    Author: Joan Price

    Publisher: Mango Publishing

    Pages: 172

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