Self Care Collection

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    Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter

    Southern Butter

    Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter

    $ 9.99

    This decadent blend of organic oils is perfect for hydrating, protecting, strengthening, and improving elasticity of the skin anywhere in or on the body! As the body butter warms to body temperature it thins to provide a slippery, friction-reducing layer that enhances sensation while minimizing irritation. Using Body Butter 3-5 times a week as a vaginal moisturizer can also help to maintain or improve the health and moisture of the vaginal lining. The fragrance free option is perfect for folks with sensitive skin, or to use all over the body, while the Sandalwood & Cinnamon or Rose & Lavender options provide aromatherapy benefits, making these perfect for full body massage. 

    Plant oil based lubricants are safe to use inside the body, but they can stain fabrics and will degrade latex or polyisoprene barrier methods of safer sex, like condoms, gloves, or dental dams.

    Details

    Manufacturer: Southern Butter

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Ingredients:

    Fragrance Free - *Coconut Oil, *Sunflower Oil, *Jojoba Oil, *Calendula Flowers, *Vitamin E Oil, and Beeswax.

    Sandalwood & Cinnamon - *Coconut Oil, *Sunflower Oil, *Jojoba Oil, *Calendula Flowers, *Vitamin E Oil, and Beeswax. Essential Oils of *Sandalwood and *Cinnamon. *Menthol Crystals.

    Rose & Lavender - *Coconut Oil, *Sunflower Oil, *Jojoba Oil, *Calendula Flowers, *Vitamin E Oil, *Ginseng Root, and Beeswax. Essential Oils of *Lemongrass and *Mint. Essential Oils of Organic Rose Geranium, Organic Lavender, and Organic Rose Absolute.

    (*Certified USDA Organic)

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    SOUTHERN BUTTER

    Southern Butter is the intimate product line of the Sierra Sage Company, a mother-daughter owned business based in Boise, Idaho. Sierra Sage is committed to creating pure, organic products that are body-friendly and effective, without sacrificing their fierce commitment to supporting local farmers and environmental consciousness and responsibility. All of Sierra Sage's products are made with organic or wildcrafted ingredients and infused with herbs over a long-term process, ensuring their full medicinal and therapeutic effects. 

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    Überlube

    Überlube

    from $ 1.50 - $ 27.99
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    Überlube

    Überlube

    Überlube

    $ 1.50

    Überlube is a premium silicone-based lube that can be used all over the body. Super smooth and silky, this lightweight lubricant stays slick for a long time and leaves a soft velvet finish on the skin. It's excellent for massage, for smoothing frizzy hair (just don't use with heat!), to prevent chafing anywhere, as an everyday vaginal moisturizer, and as a long lasting lubricant during penetrative play. Plus, silicone-based lubes are water-resistant, so Überlube can last and last, even in the shower or hot tub! This super smart lube also comes in a stylish glass bottle that will blend in with other body-care products in your bathroom or on your nightstand.

    Details

    Manufacturer: Überlube

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Ingredients: Dimethicone, Dimethiconal, Cyclomethicone, Tocopheryl Acetate (Vitamin E)

    Manufacturer

    ÜBERLUBE

    Überlube is one of those rare companies where the name came first, even before the idea to manufacture lubricant occurred to the company's founders, Stephen Magnusen and Franz Zwergel. The two had worked for security tech companies, on high fashion runways, and in cahoots with each other since high school. In 2002 the pair was looking for a business to start together and a friend used the word "überlube" in casual conversation; Magnusen and Zwergel were so taken with the term that they spent the next two years researching and developing a product that could live up to the name. Spoiler alert: they totally succeeded. Still made and distributed in Chicago, IL, Überlube is a truly luxurious product that can be used for hair, skin condition, to prevent chafing, and most importantly, as a personal lubricant.

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    WaterSlide

    Earthly Body

    from $ 6.99 - $ 29.99
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    WaterSlide

    Earthly Body

    WaterSlide

    $ 6.99

    WaterSlide, with its simple, organic formula, is one of the most versatile and body-friendly lubricants we've found! It has a thin, slippery consistency that blends into the body's natural lubrication seamlessly. WaterSlide is compatible with any toy or safer sex barrier method, and is one of the most minimal, gentle water-based lubes on the market. Featuring natural carrageenan extract (from red algae seaweed), WaterSlide has no odor and only the faintest of flavors.

    Details

    Manufacturer: Earthly Body

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Ingredients: Purified Water, Propanediol (natural humectant), Natural Carrageenan (Sea Plant), Citric Acid.

    Manufacturer

    EARTHLY BODY

    Earthly Body is a family owned skin and hair care company that has been manufacturing quality, natural products from Chatsworth, California since 1994. All products made by Earthly Body are natural, containing no mineral oil, dyes, sulfates, propylene glycol, phthalates or parabens. As part of PETA’s “No Test List” their products are also 100% Vegan and Cruelty Free.

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    Magic Wand Original (Hitachi)

    Vibratex

    Magic Wand Original (Hitachi)

    $ 65.99

    The Cadillac of the vibrator world, the Magic Wand has been a trusted classic since the 1970s. Originally marketed as the Hitachi Magic Wand, an electric body massager, this Wand has had a long, successful career stimulating all kinds of body parts, including genitals. Because it is electrical, this Wand is able to provide strong, consistent stimulation that battery-operated products cannot replicate. The large vibrating head—about the size of a tennis ball—produces deep, rich vibrations diffused over a wide area. The long handle makes it maneuverable during solo and partner play.

    This vibrator has two speeds - low and high (although they might be more accurately described as strong and super strong). To create a wider range of sensations, the Magic Wand can be plugged into an outlet that has a light dimmer switch. Adding a barrier layer of fabric or a hand between the vibrator and the user's body can also help dampen vibrations that are too intense. Undampened, the Magic Wand's intense, penetrating vibrations can be a perfect form of stimulation for people dealing with obstacles to arousal (such as medication side effects or hormonal changes).

    Details

    Length: 12.5 in.

    Diameter: 2.4 in. (head), 1.9 in. (widest end of handle)

    Material(s): Vinyl

    Settings: 2 speeds

    Power Source: Plug-in (6 ft. cord)

    Manufacturer: Vibratex

    Manufacturer Warranty: 1 year

    Country of Origin: Designed in Japan, Manufactured in China

    Care/Cleaning

    The head of the Magic Wand—though non-toxic—is porous, so it can harbor bacteria over time. We recommend using a silicone attachment head with this vibe, so that you can fully sterilize your toy. This powerhorse is a bit on the heavier side, so for those with arthritis or carpal tunnel syndrome, we recommend considering the lighter Mystic Wand, Eroscillator, or Palm Power. Alternatively, you could try some positioning furniture such as the Axis by Liberator, great for solo use or during play with a partner. The Magic Wand is also quite loud, so if discretion is a concern, you might want to consider a quieter vibe (such as the Eroscillator) instead.

    Manufacturer

    VIBRATEX

    Vibratex has been operating out of Vallejo, California, since the early 1980s. Responsible for the "Rabbit" vibrator craze initiated by Sex and the City, Vibratex has since complimented their ergonomic designs with options of safe, non-toxic materials. Their design team focuses primarily on customer feedback and input, making toys that the people want, and always with a careful eye to the female anatomy.

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    Lube Sampler

    Smitten Kitten

    from $ 9.99 - $ 18.99
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    Lube Sampler

    Smitten Kitten

    Lube Sampler

    $ 9.99

    If you're looking for lubricants, but don't know where to turn, these sampler packets are a great place to start! Each comes with 4-6 different trial size packets of lubricants that can be sampled at your leisure. Plus, we'll include a copy of our informative pamphlet LUBE! An In-Depth Look at Personal Lubricants. 

    Details

    Choose from these three options:

    Water-Based - these lubricants have a variety of consistencies, from thick to thin, and include organic options. Water-based lubricants are compatible with all sex toy materials, although they will soak into the skin and evaporate over time. 

    Includes:

    • Sliquid Satin (5ml)
    • Sutil (10ml)
    • Hathor Aphrodisia Lubricant Pure (10ml)
    • Sinclair Institute Organic Lubricant & Moisturizer (3ml)
    • Sliquid Sea (5ml)

     

    Silicone-Based - these long lasting lubricants are water-resistant and make excellent massage glides. Silicone-based lubricants are not always compatible with solid silicone sex toys. 

    Includes:

    • Überlube (2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (1.5ml)
    • Sliquid Silver (5ml)
    • Swiss Navy (20ml)

     

    Varietythis selection provides water and silicone based lubricant options, as well as a hybrid of silicone and water based mixed together, and a plant-oil based lube. Perfect if you love lube, sexy experimenting, or just aren't sure what lube is best for you!

    Includes:

    • Sinclair Institute Organic Lubricant & Moisturizer (water & aloe based, 3ml)
    • Sliquid Sassy (water-based, 5ml)
    • Sliquid Silk (hybrid, 5ml)
    • Überlube (silicone-based, 2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (1.5ml)
    • Southern Butter Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter (oil based, fragrance free, 1oz)

     

    Sensitive Skin - this sampler includes water-based, silicone, and oil based lubricants specially selected for folks with sensitive skin. Plus, you'll get some 1 oz. bottles in this pack, which are great for travel or giving a lubricant multiple test runs!

    Includes:

    • WaterSlide (water-based, 1 oz.)
    • Southern Butter Oil Based Lubricant & Body Butter (oil based, fragrance free, 1oz)
    • Sutil (water-based, 10ml)
    • Überlube (silicone-based, 2.5ml)
    • Pjur Original Bodyglide (silicone-based, 1.5ml)
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    Backdoor Balm - Anal Aftercare

    Southern Butter

    Backdoor Balm - Anal Aftercare

    $ 14.99

    1oz.

    Southern Butter's Backdoor Balm is a completely unique balm for butts that combines a thoughtful collection of organic plant extracts to soothe and protect the anal opening of any body. Olive oil and vitamin E oil hydrate and protect the skin to speed healing and prevent irritation in combination with the natural antiseptic properties of calendula, while plantain and chickweed reduce inflammation, and yarrow and St. John's wort alleviate pain and itching and can soothe hemorrhoids. Backdoor Balm is the perfect way to prepare the anal opening for penetration, and to provide anal aftercare when necessary.

    Plant oil based products are safe to use inside the body, but they can stain fabrics and degrade latex or polyisoprene barriers like condoms or dental dams.

    Details

    Ingredients (*Organic): *Olive Oil, *Plantain, *Chickweed, *Yarrow, *Sage, *Calendula, *St. John’s Wort, *Comfrey Leaf, *Gum Benzoin, *Myrrh, *Chaparral, *Vitamin E Oil, and Beeswax. Essential Oils of *Lavender and *Rosemary.

    Manufacturer: Southern Butter

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Manufacturer

    SOUTHERN BUTTER

    Southern Butter is the intimate product line of the Sierra Sage Company, a mother-daughter owned business based in Boise, Idaho. Sierra Sage is committed to creating pure, organic products that are body-friendly and effective, without sacrificing their fierce commitment to supporting local farmers and environmental consciousness and responsibility. All of Sierra Sage's products are made with organic or wildcrafted ingredients and infused with herbs over a long-term process, ensuring their full medicinal and therapeutic effects. 

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    Vulcan Masturbation Sleeve

    Vulcan

    Vulcan Masturbation Sleeve

    $ 17.99

    This compact, low-maintenance stroker sleeve really puts pleasure in the palm of your hand. The Vulcan sleeve is roughly the size of a tall beverage can, which makes it the perfect "goldilocks" option between the compact Tenga Egg and bulkier Fleshlight products. Vulcan sleeves are available in two different styles (Wet and Tight), and three different representational orifices - mouth, anus or vulva/vagina. The "Wet" sleeves are made of white elastomer, and have a slightly looser, more textured interior. The "Tight" sleeves are made of translucent elastomer, and are a just a little bit more snug and less textured.

    This sleeve is great for solo action, but it's also fun to use with a partner. The soft sleeve is easy to remove from its flexible plastic case for cleaning, or just to play with and experiment with a different kind of sensation.

    Details

    Penetrable Length: 6 inches

    Diameter: 2.2 inches

    Material(s): Elastomer, plastic

    Manufacturer: Funzone

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of elastomer.

    Elastomer is non-toxic, phthalate-free, and latex-free, but it is a porous material. While it is easily cleaned, it cannot be completely sterilized.

    To clean an elastomer toy first thoroughly rinse with hot water, then use an oil-free soap or isopropyl alcohol, working the cleaning agent over the surface of the toy, then rinse again. Avoid using soaps with high acid, oil, or alkaline content, as they can erode the elastomer. Let your elastomer toy air dry completely before storing it. Elastomer can collect dust easily, so it’s best to store it in a sealed container. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight, at room temperature. Do not cool your toy, as both refrigeration and freezing of the product are causes of degradation of the product.

    Elastomer is compatible with water-based lubricants. Silicone and oil based products can degrade the material and will not wash out of its pores.

    Do not cut or alter the shape of the material. Doing so will cause irreparable harm to your toy. Elastomer, once cut, will continue to tear. This means you should not expose your sex toy to sharp objects.

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    Stroke 29 Stroke 29

    Stroke 29

    Empowered Products

    from $ 2.50 - $ 34.99
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    Stroke 29

    Empowered Products

    Stroke 29

    $ 2.50

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    Stroke 29 has long been our most popular stroke cream and is, no doubt, responsible for thousands of happy, satisfied penises! This oil-based hand-job lotion goes on first as a velvety-thick, white cream but transforms with body heat and friction to a super long lasting, clear pleasure glide.  The product doesn't get too messy and stays where it belongs! Stroke 29 is loved by customers for solo or partnered cock massage and feels good on flaccid or erect penises. Please note that this product is not designed for use with condoms and is not vagina-friendly either. 

    Details

    Maufacturer: Empowered Products

    Country of Origin: USA 

    Ingredients: Water, Octyl Palmitate, Prusnus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) Oil, Emulsifying Wax, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Extract, Cetyl Alcohol, Tocopheryl Acetate (Vitamin E), Propylene Glycol, Glycerin, Methyl Paraben, Propyl Paraben, Carbomer, Diazolidinyl Urea, Triethanolamine

    Manufacturer

    Empowered Products

    Pink and GunOil lubricants are made by Empowered Products, a company founded in 2002 by current CEO Scott S. Fraser.  Empowered Products lubricants are formulated, manufactured and bottled at EP’s Las Vegas, Nevada facility. In 2011, Empowered Products went public and are very focused on making their lubricants widely available, even in mainstream chain retailers.

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    FC2 Female Condom

    Female Health Company

    FC2 Female Condom

    $ 1.50

    The FC2 is a receptive condom that is worn inside the vagina or anus instead of being worn on an erect penis.

    The inner ring at the closed end of the sheath is used to insert the condom inside the body and to hold it in place during intercourse. The rolled outer ring at the open end of the sheath remains outside the body and covers part of the external genitalia.

    This ingenious product was invented over 20 years ago, and continues to grow in popularity as more people discover its advantages. The FC2 is easy to insert before sexual activity even starts, so condom application doesn't have to interrupt your sexual momentum. Many users report the FC2 as being more pleasurable than conventional condoms, because it does not fit tightly around a penis and allows for more sensation. It's also great for folks who are tired of searching for a conventional condom with just the right length or girth. And it can be used with or without an erection! Give these unusual condoms a try - they might just revolutionize the way you have penetrative sex!

    Details

    Material: Nitrile

    Size: One Size. This item is not "fitted" like typical condoms.

    Length: 164mm - 184mm

    Width: 76mm - 83mm

    Outer ring diameter: 67mm

    Inner ring diameter: 50 - 51mm

    Material thickness: .065 - .085mm

    Manufacturer: Female Health Company

    Country of Origin: Company headquartered in US. Manufactured in Malaysia.

    Care/Safety

    This product is made from nitrile, a latex-free, synthetic rubber. The FC2 comes pre-lubricated with silicone lube, and is also compatible with oil and water-based lube.

    The FC2 has a five year shelf life after the manufacturing date on the package. The nitrile used in this product is not affected by differences in temperature and/or humidity, so no special storage conditions are required. Reusing this product is not recommended. 

    FC2 Condoms can be used with the pill, injections and IUD contraceptives, but cannot be used at the same time as a diaphragm, cervical cap or NuvaRing® because the inner ring of FC2 fits into the same place near the cervix.

    Do not use the FC2 with conventional condoms that are designed to fit over a penis. The friction created by the two condoms will cause tearing and render the condoms ineffective.

    Manufacturer

    The Female Health Company manufactures, markets and sells FC2 condoms. They have offices in Chicago and London, and a manufacturing facility in Malaysia. Most of their business is done with global agencies that buy large quantities of FC2 condoms for HIV/AIDS prevention efforts around the world.

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    Bond Deluxe Kit

    Liberator

    Bond Deluxe Kit

    $ 49.99

    Lightweight and luxurious, this bondage set can tie you up without weighing you down! It features two wrist cuffs, two ankle cuffs, and one blindfold, all crafted from soft, sturdy microfiber with a sublimely sensual velour-like texture. Also included are a metal O-ring and four clip-on cuff connectors, which allow the cuffs to be linked together in a hogtie or any number of other configurations. This kit's comfortable, intuitive, versatile design makes it a perfect choice for bondage beginners - but Liberator's high quality manufacturing and careful attention to details of usability also make it a worthy addition to the seasoned player's collection.

    Details

    Wrist cuffs fit all wrists up to 9.5 in.

    Ankle cuffs fit all ankles up to 12.5 in.

    Cuff width is 2.0 in.

    Blindfold fits heads approx. 20 in. to 28 in.

    Materials: microfiber, synthetic straps, metal

    Manufacturer: Liberator

    Country of Origin: USA (Designed and crafted in Atlanta, Georgia)

    Manufacturer

    LIBERATOR

    This Atlanta, Georgia based company has a wonderfully body positive mission to “transform ordinary bedrooms into supportive landscapes for intimacy by presenting angles, elevations, curves and motion that help people of all sizes find satisfying ways to connect with their partners.” They seem to understand the importance of representation, as their product photos show people with a greater variety of skin colors and body sizes than most mainstream sex gear companies.

     

     

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    Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

    Fleshlight

    Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

    $ 69.99

    This product is sold out

    When researching this product, we were struck by the description: "The key to lasting longer in bed is not a cream, not a pill, and not a potion... It's PRACTICE." We are pretty into the idea that masturbation can be a great way to practice for partnered sex, so a toy designed and marketed to help users “improve and explore different rhythms and methods of penetration” is totally aces in our book. Of course, any Fleshlight stroker could be terrific for this purpose—the Stamina Training Unit simply features an especially stimulating inner canal texture so that using this toy to practice endurance can be a special (and very pleasurable) challenge. Fleshlight claims that “If you can last 10 minutes in the STU, you can last 20 minutes in bed with anyone.” We think that no matter how long you last in any situation, you're sure to love this awesome masturbation sleeve.

    Details

    Length: 10 in.

    Penetrable Length: 8 in.

    Diameter: 4 in.

    Material(s): SuperSkin®

    Manufacturer: Fleshlight

    Country of Origin: Manufactured in USA and Spain

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of SuperSkin®, a soft, pliable, high-quality material that is patented by Fleshlight. Although SuperSkin® is a porous material, it is non-toxic, phthalate-free, latex-free, 100 percent body safe, and reasonably easy to use and clean. We don’t recommend sharing your Fleshlight toy with other people (except with condom usage) because its porous nature makes sterilizing this sleeve impossible, but with proper usage and care, your Fleshlight will have a long life.

    SuperSkin® is reasonably simple to care for and easy to clean. Here are a few tips:

    Do not cut or alter the shape of the material. Doing so will cause irreparable harm to your toy. SuperSkin®, once cut, will continue to tear. This means you should not expose your sex toy to sharp objects.

    Do not expose your Fleshlight toy to oil-based or silicone-based lubricants, since they will slowly destroy the Fleshlight material over time. Fleshlight recommends the use of water-based lubricants ONLY.

    Do not use soap or other cleaners to wash your Fleshlight. Simply rinse your removable Fleshlight sleeve with warm water from your sink and allow time for it to dry before storing. For tough cleaning, Fleshlight suggests using a little isopropyl alcohol. To maintain that soft feel, you can sprinkle a liberal amount of cornstarch on the sleeve (when dry) and shake off the excess powder. Fleshlight does NOT recommend the use of talcum or baby powder to powder your sleeve.

    Let your toy air dry or use a lint-free towel to pat it dry before you put it away. Shake out as much water as possible and place in a well ventilated area—near a window or next to a fan. For quick drying, slide a thin cloth/towel through it from one end to the other. When you return it to the case, make sure to leave the end caps loose so that air can continue to circulate.

    You can warm your Fleshlight sleeve by removing it from the case and soaking it in a sink/tub filled with warm water. If necessary, drain the water and repeat the process with new warm water. Do not boil or microwave your sleeve! Shake off the water and re-insert the sleeve into the Fleshlight case, adjust the tightness of the cap at the bottom to vary the suction, and finish by applying a liberal amount of lubricant to the orifice and yourself. You can also try warming the lube in the sink/tub at the same time as the sleeve.

    Manufacturer:

    FLESHLIGHT

    Fleshlight may be the world's best known name in masturbation toys for bodies with penises, and all that stroking sensation is owned, manufactured, and distributed by Interactive Lifeforms Inc. Founded in 1995, ILF has quickly come to dominate the world of masturbation sleeves, expanding to create seven product lines, their own lubricants, cleaning products, and toy accessories.

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    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Quick View
    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

    Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

    $ 16.99

    This product is sold out

    This book is a must read for anyone who has ever wondered "why does my body behave this way?" or "why doesn't my arousal work the way I want it to?" We don't often declare favorites at Smitten Kitten, but Come As You Are is undeniably one of the best books available today about the science of arousal and pleasure. The tone of the book is wonderfully approachable and conversational, and makes it easy for even the least scientifically minded of us to understand the intricacies of the human nervous system. And although the book focuses on cisgender women's sexuality, there are acknowledgments and careful word choices throughout the text that make it accessible for queer and trans readers. With a firm grounding in scientific study and a friendly, truly down to earth voice, this book stands out in the genre of arousal and orgasm guides. 

    Details

    Author: Emily Nagoski

    Publisher: Simon & Schuster (March 3, 2015)

    Pages: 416

    Author

    Emily Nagoski is Wellness Education Director and Lecturer at Smith College. She has a PhD in Health Behavior with a doctoral concentration in human sexuality from Indiana University (IU), and a master’s degree (also from IU) in counseling, with a clinical internship at the Kinsey Institute Sexual Health Clinic. She has taught graduate and undergraduate classes in human sexuality, relationships and communication, stress management, and sex education. At Smitten Kitten, we can't speak highly enough of Emily Nagoski's intelligent, compassionate, and groundbreaking work.

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    Miss Bi

    Fun Factory

    Miss Bi

    $ 149.99

    Miss Bi takes Fun Factory's deep and rumbly G5 motor and doubles its intensity for one powered-up dual stimulation vibrator. The internal and external motors each have their own control button, and with a variety of pulse patterns and vibration options it's easy to customize the sensations and control the vibe while using it on yourself or a partner. The ergonomic shape of the internal portion curves forward to massage the G-spot, while the bulge at the base gives a feeling of fullness for those who prefer girth over length. The external portion, made of soft, squishy silicone, focuses vibration on the external genitals over its broad surface area, without feeling pokey or putting pressure on the body. This toy can also be used anally for prostate or indirect G-spot stimulation, as the external portion makes it anal safe, and can serve as a delightful perineum stimulator.

     Details

    Length: 6.5 inches

    Insertable Length: 3.27 inches

    Diameter: 1.78 inches at widest point

    Material(s): Silicone, ABS plastic

    Settings: 7 speeds, 7 modes of vibration

    Power Source: USB rechargable

    Manufacturer: Fun Factory

    Manufacturer Warranty: Fun Factory offers a 2 year warranty against defects.

    Country of Origin: Germany

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of silicone and has electronic components.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

    For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

    Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    FUN FACTORY

    Fun Factory is a fantastic German company that has been combining fun shapes, original designs, bright candy colors, and smart technology and engineering in their toys for over 15 years. Starting as a small two-person endeavor, Fun Factory has grown to become Europe’s largest manufacturer of silicone sex toys (all manufactured in Germany) and ships their toys all over the world. Fun Factory is known for their high standards of innovation and quality, which have earned them various awards over the years. Plus, with their amazing two-year product warranty, you know you're getting a great product that will last a long time.

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    Seagrape Sexy Travel Set

    Seagrape

    Seagrape Sexy Travel Set

    $ 38.99

    Perfect for a romantic getaway or simply as a sampler of Seagrape's excellent line of sensual bath and body products, the Sexy Travel Set has a little bit of everything. Soak away your stress and muscle tension with Aches + Pains bath salt blend. Indulge in some sense-stirring skin-on-skin contact with Deep Light lavender and orange scented massage oil in both liquid and candle form. Or use the included feathers to brush on a delectable dusting of sweetness and flavor to your lover's skin with cocoa Honey Dust. This elegantly packaged and travel-friendly kit makes an excellent gift, whether for yourself, your sweetheart, or a friend in need of some romantic inspiration.

    Details

    Bath Soak Ingredients: Dead Sea salt, Epsom salt, organic herbs (chamomile, spirulina, alfalfa), essential oils (peppermint, rosemary, sage, and lemon)

    Massage Oil Ingredients: grape seed, sweet almond, jojoba, apricot kernel, avocado, coconut, soybean, and olive oil, vitamin E, herbs and essential oil blend

    Massage Candle Ingredients: soy wax, shea butter, avocado oil, coconut oil, vitamin E, essential oil blend

    Honey Dust Ingredients: corn starch, honey powder, vanilla powder, organic cocoa

    Manufacturer: Seagrape

    Country of Origin: USA

    Manufacturer

    SEAGRAPE

    Handmade in Portland, Oregon, Seagrape's products are created with 100% natural products inspired by nature and expertly combined to enhance the aphrodisiac qualities evident in both scent and texture. You'll never find synthetic dyes, preservatives, sulfates or chemicals, and every item is infused with love by the company's dedicated founder.

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    Seagrape Spanking Set

    Seagrape

    Seagrape Spanking Set

    $ 36.99

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    Seagrape Sexy Weekend Set

    Seagrape

    Seagrape Sexy Weekend Set

    $ 49.99

    Whether you're relaxing in the intimacy of your own home or jetsetting to a remote and romantic destination, do so in style and luxury with this collection of Seagrape's finest sensory indulgences. The kit includes two richly scented massage oils, a flavorful honey dust with feather applicator for adding a lip-smacking touch of cocoa and sweetness to your lover's skin, a refreshing body mist to awaken the senses, and a relaxing bath soak to soothe tense and aching muscles. All items are packaged in plentiful yet airplane-friendly quantities for carry on convenience.

    Details

    Massage Oil Ingredients: grape seed, sweet almond, jojoba, apricot kernel, avocado, coconut, soybean, and olive oil, vitamin E, herbs and essential oil blend

    Honey Dust Ingredients: corn starch, honey powder, vanilla powder, organic cocoa

    Body Mist Ingredients: distilled water, alcohol, and essential oil blend

    Bath Soak Ingredients: Dead Sea salt, Epsom salt, organic herbs (chamomile, spirulina, alfalfa), essential oils (peppermint, rosemary, sage, and lemon)

    Manufacturer: Seagrape

    Country of Origin: U.S.A.

    Manufacturer

    SEAGRAPE

    Handmade in Portland, Oregon, Seagrape's products are created with 100% natural products inspired by nature and expertly combined to enhance the aphrodisiac qualities evident in both scent and texture. You'll never find synthetic dyes, preservatives, sulfates or chemicals, and every item is infused with love by the company's dedicated founder.
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    NPR Card

    Lady Pilot Letterpress

    NPR Card

    $ 5.99

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    MGX MGX

    MGX

    Aneros

    $ 49.99
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    MGX

    Aneros

    MGX

    $ 49.99

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    Cast in rigid plastic and expertly designed to press firmly against the prostate upon insertion, Aneros' massagers are renowned for their ability to deliver tremendously intense hands-free prostate stimulation. The MGX is their classic model—just lube up its nice smooth surface, insert it anally, letting your sphincter come to rest around its slim, ribbed neck, and flex those pelvic floor muscles to send the massager's bulbous end rocking across the surface of the prostate. Great for solo play, the MGX will also respond to your body's movements to open up a whole new world of sensations when worn during sex with a partner.

    Details

    Length: 5.0 in.

    Insertable Length: 4.0 in.

    Diameter: 1.00 in.

    Material: polyoxymethylene (POM) plastic

    Manufacturer: Aneros

    Made in USA

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of polyoxymethylene (POM) plastic.

    POM plastic is simple to care for and easy to clean. It’s a hypoallergenic, non-porous material that won’t break down or leach chemicals into the body over time. POM toys can easily be cleaned with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use.

    To sterilize, wash and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    POM plastic is compatible with any kind of lubricant.

    Manufacturer

    The products of the Aneros Company, owned by High Island Health LLC, were originally developed as therapeutic devices to treat chronic prostate problems. These products were primarily designed to increase blood circulation through prostate massage, but many users early on—in addition to improved prostate health—reported pleasurable sexual effects and benefits from usage. Subsequently, Aneros began innovating and marketing these massagers through focusing on their pleasure- and orgasm-giving potentials, putting years of research and development into creating body-safe, medically-patented prostate massagers that promote pleasure as well as health.

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    Healing Painful Sex

    Deborah Coady & Nancy Fish

    Healing Painful Sex

    $ 18.00

    This comprehensive and up-to-date guide is an excellent self care resource for people experiencing pelvic pain, and a thorough medical reference for lay people and professionals. Although the intended audience is cisgender, heterosexual women, people of all genders will find this book extremely useful for understanding pelvic health. In fact, the book's deeply compassionate and thorough approach to chronic pelvic pain makes it arguably the best book available on the subject. Our staff highly recommends this book for anyone who is struggling with a pelvic pain condition, or who needs help communicating with their health care provider about sexual pain.

    Details

    Authors: Deborah Coady MD, MSW, Nancy Fish MPH

    Publisher: Seal Press (November 1st, 2011)

    Pages: 400

     

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    Naked At Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex

    Joan Price

    Naked At Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex

    $ 16.95

    From acclaimed author and frequent Smitten Kitten guest educator Joan Price comes Naked At Our Age, a straight-shooting book that covers a broad range of topics pertaining to sex, relationships, and aging. A follow up to Better Than I Ever Expected, Price's first foray into the subject of senior sex, Naked At Our Age pairs readers' questions with advice from over forty expert sex educators as well as Price's own warm, honest, and knowledgeable commentary. Covering topics ranging from health issues like vulvar/vaginal pain, erectile dysfunction, cancer, and Alzheimer's to relationship concerns like keeping desire alive, grieving the loss of a partner, and senior dating, Naked At Our Age provides a wealth of practical advice and fearlessly models an attitude of grace and adaptability in the face of the body and relationship changes that often accompany aging.

    Details
    Author: Joan Price
    Publisher: Seal Press (2011)
    Pages: 400
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    Wedge

    Liberator

    Wedge

    $ 95.00

    A smaller, more compact version of the Ramp, the Wedge offers comfortable, firm support, even on the softest mattress. Use it to enhance partnered or solo play by elevating and easing pressure on the neck, hips, knees, wrists, elbows and much, much more. You can also incorporate the Wedge into your day as a neck pillow, lap desk, or yoga aid. Pair it with the Ramp or the Jaz for even more possibilities!

    Details

    Dimensions: length 14 inches, width 24 inches, height 7 inches

    Material(s):  Cover is machine washable microfiber. Liner is polyester, internal foam is fully supportive polyurethane.

    Manufacturer: Liberator

    Manufacturer Warranty: 1 year warranty through Liberator

    Country of Origin: USA

    Care/Cleaning

    The removable cover can be machine washed in cold water with a gentle detergent. The cover can be machine dried with low/no heat, but air drying is recommended.

    Manufacturer

    LIBERATOR

    This Atlanta, Georgia based company has a wonderfully body positive mission, to “transform ordinary bedrooms into supportive landscapes for intimacy by presenting angles, elevations, curves and motion that help people of all sizes find satisfying ways to connect with their partners.” They seem to understand the importance of representation, as their product photos show people with a greater variety of skin colors and body sizes than most mainstream sex gear companies.



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    Fun Wand

    Njoy

    Fun Wand

    $ 114.99

    Stainless steel can't be beat for smoothness, firmness, and weight, and njoy is renowned for producing some of the most beautifully designed stainless steel insertables on the market. The Fun Wand offers a plethora of pleasurable possibilities with its two distinctive ends—one sporting a single bulb atop a smooth, narrow shaft and one featuring three bulbs of gradually increasing diameter. Both ends are curved for ideal prostate or G-Spot access, and the series of graduated bulbs is a special treat for the sphincters during in-and-out anal play.

    Details

    Length: 8 in.

    Diameter: 1.05 in. (single bulb end), 0.75–0.95 in. (graduated bulb end)

    Material: stainless steel

    Manufacturer: njoy

    Country of Origin: Designed in USA, manufactured in China

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of stainless steel.

    The medical-grade stainless steel used to make this product is hypoallergenic, non-porous and non-toxic. Do not use any abrasives to clean your toy or expose your toy to rough surfaces, or you may scratch the smooth finish. For the best protection, store it in its case or wrap it in a soft fabric.

    To clean, wash your stainless steel toy with mild soap and water before and after use. You can do this in the sink or in the dishwasher if that works for you.

    To sterilize, wash and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Use caution, as your toy will be very hot when you take it out of the water.

    Stainless steel is compatible with any kind of lubricant.

    Manufacturer

    NJOY

    njoy® makes beautiful, simple, high-quality sex toys, all cast in super-sleek 316 grade stainless steel and hand-polished. What’s not to love? Plus, they’re a refreshingly sex positive company. As they say on their website, “We strive to elevate the wholesome experience of sexual exploration, sharing, and pleasure.”

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    Ami+

    Je Joue

    Ami+

    $ 32.99

    This product is sold out

    For pelvic muscles that are already strong, the Ami+ is the perfect advanced workout. This small, relatively heavy kegel exerciser is a tool for bringing more awareness to the pelvic region, and provides a focused, more intense challenge for pelvic strengthening. There are lots of different exercises that work with a set of kegel balls like this one, and the enclosed manual offers several options and instructions.

    Regular kegel exercises can work to tone and strengthen the PC muscles for easier G-spot location, enhanced sensitivity, more intense orgasms, improved partner sex, and greater overall pelvic health. If you're just starting to work on increasing your pelvic floor muscle tone, we recommend the graduated, three piece Ami set that includes a larger, lighter beginner balls.

    Details

    Balls are 1.25 inches in diameter

    Insertable length: 2.9 inches

    Material(s): ABS plastic, silicone.

    Manufacturer: Je Joue

    Manufacturer Warranty: 1 year

    Country of Origin: Manufactured in China

    Care/Cleaning

    This product is made of silicone.

    Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

    To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

    To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

    Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

    Manufacturer

    JE JOUE

    Je Joue is a small, woman-owned company that is committed to making high-quality body-safe toys. They were one of the first manufacturers to start making body-safe, rechargeable toys that were also fully waterproof. Thanks, Je Joue. You’ve done a lot to improve bath and shower time around the world.

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    Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)

    Hanne Blank

    Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)

    $ 15.99

    Big Big Love (Revised) is a sex and relationship guide for people interested in fat bodies. Whether you're fat, attracted to fat folks, or both, this book provides practical information and insights that you'll be able to really use. It's witty, intelligently written and unflinching in its critical examination of fatphobic culture. This revised edition features new illustrations, commentary from sexual health professionals, activists and experts, and lots of quotes and anecdotes from participants in a survey conducted especially for this book. It's an entertaining and empowering read that is not to be missed.

    Details

    Author: Hanne Blank

    Publisher: Celestial Arts (Revised Edition 2011)

    Pages: 240

     

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