This nicely packaged conversation-starter deck is a stand out. We especially love these high-quality cards because they are designed to help lovers learn more about their partners' sexual personality, interests, and goals, all the while making no assumptions about users' gender or sexual orientation. The thought-provoking prompts and the language throughout are appropriate for a wide variety of people, making this a great gift idea! The deck is beautifully printed and contains questions ranging from the mildly titillating to the seriously sexy, "rated" X, XX, or XXX on the back of the cards to help folks choose their desired level of intimacy. We love recommending this for folks with new lovers as well as those in long-term relationships. 

Details

Publisher: Chronicle Books

Packaging: Heavy cardstock box with hinged lid: 4.75 in. x 3.5 in., shrink wrapped 

Pages:  100 cards: 2 x 3 1/4 in

Manufacturer

CHRONICLE BOOKS

An independent publisher since 1967, Chronicle Books evolved from the San Francisco Chronicle newspaper. From pregnancy self-help guides to children's fiction, Chronicle Books has made a name for itself internationally, while maintaining a strong tie to its San Francisco home. Their spectacle logo is easily recognizable, and has become associated with clever, funny, and ethically produced works of literature that we're proud to support!

This sturdy harness is perfect for a ruffian with a tough exterior and a tender heart. The high quality leather is strong enough to withstand plenty of action while still providing stability and comfort, and the slender, finely stitched straps make a provocative contrast with that no-nonsense handle in the back. This harness would be perfect for folks who enjoy some affectionate pushing and pulling, or who like being topped from the bottom. 

Details

Materials: top grain American cowhide, brass OR nickel-plated steel

Manufacturer: Project TransAction

Country of Origin: US - Made in Boston, Massachusetts

Manufacturer Warranty: If your harness breaks during typical wear, you can send it back for repair or replacement at Project TransAction's discretion. 

Care/Cleaning

Leather products are porous, meaning they cannot be completely sterilized and they will absorb water, so when cleaning it is best to use as little water as possible. Only use soaps specifically made for cleaning leather, like saddle soap or specialty leather wipes. Follow cleaning instructions of whichever leather cleaner you choose, then using a dry towel pat dry until all excess moisture has been absorbed.

Standard hand soaps or dish soaps can damage dyed leather and/or dry out leather leading to cracks or fraying. Oils in lubricants or soaps can stain leathers and should be avoided.

Over time leather conditioners may be necessary to keep leathers from cracking or wearing out, especially around buckles or other metal hardware.

Manufacturer

Project TransAction

Project TransAction is an eco-conscious, artist driven independent leather and screen-printing pursuit located in Boston, MA. Established with a focus on sustainability and superior quality in 2006, TransAction fuses traditional leather craft and printmaking with innovative design to meet the needs, personalities, and imaginations of the customer. TransAction sources choice, hand selected hides and hardware from reputable, often family owned, US based companies. Shop confidently knowing that TransAction will never sacrifice quality for profit, using eco-friendly, bio-degradable inks, dyes, and cleaners as well as vegetable tanned leather for many items. Project TransAction thrives on surpassing expectations with distinctive hand-crafted goods created to be durable; and likely to be your favorite new discovery.

Sizing

Size Small/Medium accommodates hip measurements 29-44"

Size Medium/Large accommodates hip measurements 34-53"

Size Large/Extra Large accommodates hip measurements 39-70"

Front snaps accommodate rings from 1-1/2"- 2-1/4"

All orders include 1-1/2" and 1-3/4" O-rings.

Enhance Stimulating Butter combines the natural stimulating properties of organic menthol and peppermint essential oils to increase blood flow and provide a delightful tingling sensation anywhere on the body—on ANY BODY regardless of genitals! The concentrated balm requires only a small amount to heighten sensation and speed arousal on a penis, vulva, clitoris, nipples, or lips. Because this product is totally organic and safe to ingest it makes for a great way to spice up oral sex, along with all of your other favorite, sexy activities. The sensation provided by Enhance Stimulating Butter is most potent on a mucous membrane, so use less for moist areas of the body, or more on dry areas.

Plant oil based lubricants are safe to use inside the body, but they can stain fabrics and will degrade latex or polyisoprene barrier methods of safer sex, like condoms, gloves, or dental dams.

Details

Manufacturer: Southern Butter

Country of Origin: U.S.A.

Ingredients: *Coconut Oil, *Peppermint Essential Oil, *Sunflower Oil, *Calendula Flowers, *Menthol Crystals and beeswax.

*Certified USDA Organic

Manufacturer

SOUTHERN BUTTER

Southern Butter is the intimate product line of the Sierra Sage Company, a mother-daughter owned business based in Boise, Idaho. Sierra Sage is committed to creating pure, organic products that are body-friendly and effective, without sacrificing their fierce commitment to supporting local farmers and environmental consciousness and responsibility. All of Sierra Sage's products are made with organic or wildcrafted ingredients and infused with herbs over a long-term process, ensuring their full medicinal and therapeutic effects. 

These Trustex condoms come in seven bright, saturated colors and sweet, candy-like flavors: Banana, Vanilla, Strawberry, Cola, Chocolate, Mint and Grape. Combine these with your favorite flavored, water based lube to create your own oral sex flavor combo cocktails! (Pun very much intended.) As a bonus, these condoms are remarkably thin for added sensation!

Details

Length: 7.75 inches / 196.86 mm

Width: 1.3 inches / 52 mm

Material Thickness: .05 mm

Material(s): Latex, silicone lubricant, artificial flavors

Manufacturer:  Trustex / Line One Laboratories

All measurements are verified by the manufacturer.

Care/Safety

This product is made of latex. Many people have contact dermatitis or various degrees of allergic reaction to the proteins present in natural rubber latex. Oil-based lubricants and lotions will cause latex to weaken and deteriorate, so water and silicone based lubricants are recommended.

Store this product around or below room temperature and do not expose it to excessive friction or heat, direct sunlight, or temperatures below freezing. Discard this product if the expiration date printed on the packaging has passed. This product is not reusable.

Often imitated, never duplicated... that's what we've always said about the classic, tremendously powerful Magic Wand. But now there's a new, cordless version of this beloved vibe, and it's got all the features that fans have wanted for years! The Magic Wand Rechargeable works with or without its foot cord, for maximum versatility. The soft, silky head is made from body friendly silicone, so it's now possible to sterilize and easily share with a partner or partners. But the upgrades don't stop there—instead of only two speeds, this new wand has 4 power levels and 4 different pulse patterns, which can be easily accessed using the simple control panel. There are even color coded lights to make it very clear what setting you're on. This new Magic Wand seems to pack just as powerful a punch as its predecessor... but long time Magic Wand fans will obviously want to do lots of field testing just to be *extra* sure.

Details

Length: 13" total length

Diameter: 2.4" head diameter

Material(s): Silicone, hard plastic

Settings: 4 vibration levels, 4 vibration patterns

Power Source: rechargeable - charging cord has a two pronged plug for wall sockets in US, Canada, Mexico and Japan.

Manufacturer: Vibratex

Manufacturer Warranty: 1 year

Country of Origin: Manufactured in China

Care/Cleaning

The head of the Magic Wand Rechargeable is made of silicone. 

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submergible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

This toy is a bit on the heavier side, so for those with arthritis or carpal tunnel syndrome, we recommend considering the lighter Mystic Wand, Eroscillator, or Palm Power. Alternatively, you could try some positioning furniture such as the Axis by Liberator, great for solo use or during play with a partner. The Magic Wand Rechargeable is also relatively loud, so if discretion is a concern, you might want to consider a quieter vibe (such as the Eroscillator) instead.

Manufacturer

VIBRATEX

Vibratex has been operating out of Vallejo, California, since the early 1980s. Responsible for the "Rabbit" vibrator craze initiated by Sex and the City, Vibratex has since complimented their ergonomic designs with options of safe, non-toxic materials. Their design team focuses primarily on customer feedback and input, making toys that the people want, and always with a careful eye to the female anatomy.

Whether you're a lone wolf, the leader of the pack or just an intrepid Queer Scout looking for adventure, these fine handkerchiefs are sure to complete your look.

Details

These Wolf Hankies were originally printed for an "Up the Wolf Dykes" Operation Sappho queer dance party in Pittsburgh.

materials: 100% cotton, heat set ink. Machine washable and dryable.

measurements: 22 inches x 22 inches.

country of origin: bandanas manufactured in USA, designed and printed in Canada.

Manufacturer

MARY MACK

Mary Tremonte is an artist, educator, and DJ based in Toronto via Pittsburgh. A founding member of Justseeds Artists' Cooperative, she works with "printmaking in the expanded field," including printstallation, interactive silkscreen printing in public space, and wearable artist multiples such as queer scout badges. As DJ Mary Mack she strives to make safe(r) spaces on dance floors for embodying a body politic with pleasure. With Justseeds and independently Mary has exhibited, presented lectures and workshops, and performed in Toronto, Pittsburgh, throughout the United States, and internationally. Formerly the youth programs coordinator at The Andy Warhol Museum, she values art education as a means of youth empowerment and social change. Through her work she aims to create temporary utopias and sustainable commons through pedagogy, collaboration, visual pleasure and serious fun.

These lovely, handmade candles aren't only candles—they're designed to be used as massage oil! Crafted of soy and other plant-derived oils, they do not melt into hot wax, but instead into a soothingly warm oil perfect for sensual massage. First burn the candle for 20-30 minutes and then extinguish the flame. Pour a small amount of melted oil into your hand and apply to sore muscles and dry skin. The scents are rich but not overpowering and smell authentic and lovely—no artificial fragrance shenanigans here! Note that while these candles do have a pleasantly warm, low-temperature melting point, it's a good idea to carefully test the temperature with your hand before pouring directly onto potentially sensitive skin, especially if the candle has been burning for a long time.

Details

Ingredients: Soy wax, shea butter, avocado oil, coconut oil, vitamin E, essential and flavor oil blend

Manufacturer: Seagrape

Country of Origin: USA 

Manufacturer

SEAGRAPE

Handmade in Portland, Oregon, Seagrape's products are created with 100% natural products inspired by nature and expertly combined to enhance the aphrodisiac qualities evident in both scent and texture. You'll never find synthetic dyes, preservatives, sulfates or chemicals, and every item is infused with love by the company's dedicated founder.

For those who love (or love to hate) being tickled, a feather tickler is a must-have accessory. With deep colors ranging from burgundy to teal, regal shades of blue and purple to classic black and red, these feathers look as luxurious as they feel. The slender black wand and tall ostrich feather give any tickling tormentor a nice, long reach to easily tease every sensitive spot. From beginners to experts in sensory play, this feather is a very necessary addition to one’s collection.

Details

Length: Approx. 28 in. (May vary slightly based on feather length)

Material(s): Natural feather, hard plastic

Manufacturer: Sportsheets

Manufacturer Warranty: Sportsheets offers a limited lifetime warranty against defects.

Country of Origin: Made in USA

Care/Cleaning

This product is made from real feathers. If soiled, wipe carefully with a damp cloth and air dry.

Manufacturer

SPORTSHEETS

Sportsheets was founded in a garage of Tom Stewart, its founder and current CEO. By enlisting the help of his family, Stewart turned Sportsheets into a multi-award winning company with five distinct product lines. Sportsheets products are functional, affordable, and built to last a lifetime. Their mission is “keeping couples connected,” which they do not only through their products, but their commitment to quality, customer service, and service to their communities.

Whether you're relaxing in the intimacy of your own home or jetsetting to a remote and romantic destination, do so in style and luxury with this collection of Seagrape's finest sensory indulgences. The kit includes two richly scented massage oils, a flavorful honey dust with feather applicator for adding a lip-smacking touch of cocoa and sweetness to your lover's skin, a refreshing body mist to awaken the senses, and a relaxing bath soak to soothe tense and aching muscles. All items are packaged in plentiful yet airplane-friendly quantities for carry on convenience.

Details

Massage Oil Ingredients: grape seed, sweet almond, jojoba, apricot kernel, avocado, coconut, soybean, and olive oil, vitamin E, herbs and essential oil blend

Honey Dust Ingredients: corn starch, honey powder, vanilla powder, organic cocoa

Body Mist Ingredients: distilled water, alcohol, and essential oil blend

Bath Soak Ingredients: Dead Sea salt, Epsom salt, organic herbs (chamomile, spirulina, alfalfa), essential oils (peppermint, rosemary, sage, and lemon)

Manufacturer: Seagrape

Country of Origin: U.S.A.

Manufacturer

SEAGRAPE

Fun Factory blew a lot of minds with their Stronic line of thrusting, pulsating toys in 2015, and now they've made a Stronic toy that thrusts and vibrates! The rhythmic thrusting produced by this toy's pulsating motor is smooth and nearly silent, and the feeling has been described as similar to rapid, shallow penetrative sex. The vibrating arm of the toy is luxuriously shaped for maximum contact with the clitoris or other sensitive parts. The solid engineering and ingenious design of this toy are consistent with Fun Factory's consistently high standards, and it comes with their usual two year warranty against defects. The Bi Stronic Fusion is also fully waterproof and submersible, allowing you to explore your pleasure on dry land or underwater. 

PLEASE NOTE: This toy contains magnets and should NOT be used by anyone with a pacemaker.

Details

Length: 8.5 inches

Insertable Length: 4.2 inches

Length of vibrating arm: 2.23 inches

Diameter: 1.75 inches at widest point

Material: Silicone

Settings and Controls: 8 thrusting modes and 6 vibration modes. 

The three control buttons on the Bi Stronic Fusion are labeled with a plus and minus sign, and the word "FUN." The red "FUN" button turns the toy on and off. The toy contains a pulsating motor, which is controlled by the plus button, and a vibrating motor controlled by the minus button. 

Press and briefly hold the "FUN" button to turn on the toy. Pulsation and vibration will start as soon as the toy is turned on. To cycle through different pulsation patterns, press the plus button. For different vibration patterns, press the minus button. 

SAVE function: If you discover a combination of vibration and pulsation that's especially enjoyable, it can be saved. Hold down the "FUN" button for three seconds, until the toy emits a quick double buzz. The next time the toy is turned on, it will initiate with your saved settings. To return the toy to its factory settings, hold the "FUN" button for six seconds, until it emits five buzzes in quick succession.

LOCK function: The Bi Stronic Fusion locks conveniently for travel, to keep its easy-to-press buttons from turning on the toy accidentally. To lock the toy, hold down the "FUN" and minus buttons until the toy emits one short buzz. To unlock the toy, hold down the "FUN" and plus buttons until the toy buzzes once. 

Power Source: Rechargeable, USB charger included. This toy's rechargeable batteries have no memory effect, so partial discharging and recharging have no effect on the battery, which lasts for years.

Manufacturer:  Fun Factory

Manufacturer Warranty: Fun Factory offers a 2 year warranty against defects.

Country of Origin: Germany

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of silicone and has electronic components.

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it. Be mindful of any seams, charging interfaces or buttons on your toy, and follow the instructions provided by the manufacturer to ensure that your toy is not damaged by moisture.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. You can use this method of sterilization if the electronic components of your toy are removable.

For toys that cannot be submerged in boiling water, use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. If your toy is not submersible, simply wipe, spray or dip the toy in the bleach solution without submerging the moisture sensitive areas.

Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

Manufacturer

FUN FACTORY

Fun Factory is a fantastic German company that has been combining fun shapes, original designs, bright candy colors, and smart technology and engineering in their toys for over 15 years. Starting as a small two-person endeavor, Fun Factory has grown to become Europe’s largest manufacturer of silicone sex toys (all manufactured in Germany) and ships their toys all over the world. Fun Factory is known for their high standards of innovation and quality, which have earned them various awards over the years. Plus, with their amazing two-year product warranty, you know you're getting a great product that will last a long time.

The Shilo pack and play soft silicone dildo is a super realistic looking and feeling toy; ideal for packing because it’s bendable and soft, and ideal for playing in any body! The pronounced head and customizable curve of the toy, plus a flared base, make it great for massaging the G-spot and prostate, wearing in a harness or packing underpants. Depending on the the body size of the wearer and the way Shilo is worn as a packer, it may create a relatively large bulge. So if you plan to pack with it, be sure to check its dimensions! The Shilo also comes in four colors to better match the skin tones of its diverse and satisfied users.

Details

Length: 7.0 in.

Insertable Length: 6.0 in.

Diameter: 1.74 in.

Material: Silicone

Manufacturer: New York Toy Collective

Country of Origin: Made and Designed in the U.S.A.

Care/Cleaning

This product is made of solid silicone.

Silicone is non-porous and non-toxic. Medical grade silicone is totally safe for your body. It can be easily cleaned and sterilized by following the guidelines below.

To clean silicone, wash it with hot water and a body-friendly soap before and after each use. Make sure your toy is dry before storing it.

To sterilize silicone, wash it and then boil it in plain water for 3-5 minutes. As an alternative, you can also use a solution of 1 part bleach and 9 parts water. Soak your silicone toy in this solution for 5 minutes, then allow to air dry. Sterilize your silicone sex toys between partners, between holes, or if you would just feel better about using your toy if you did.

Solid silicone can sometimes be incompatible with silicone lubricant. Before applying silicone lube to a silicone toy, we recommend conducting a “patch test.” After 10 minutes of contact with silicone lube, rinse your toy and inspect for signs of bonding, peeling, or a foggy or damaged surface finish. If there are no visible signs of damage, your toy is safe to use with silicone lube.

Manufacturer

NEW YORK TOY COLLECTIVE

New York Toy Collective is a tech-savvy, innovative company working on a small scale to create amazing toys with a big impact. Founded in 2013, this new company gained recognition from an inspired project in which they scanned volunteer's penises and used a 3D printer to create safe, functional replica dildos! In their own words, “At New York Toy Collective, an adult toy company driven by technology and innovation, we believe that your body shouldn't limit your sexual possibilities. Our goal is to create the highest quality and best performing sex toys possible, that allow you to be yourself with the people you love.”

The Smitten Kitten is super excited to support New York Toy Collective as they create high quality silicone toys that are both practical and pleasurable.